Just googled and by the sounds of it, she's similar to Anwen - obviously the Priestesses of Dibella take no nonsense!
Sadly no, which is ridiculous (Teldryn... ) although most of the Solstheim Dunmer I can think of seem to be married or... otherwise ineligible. I like the chap at Thirsk, if he's the one I'm thinking of, I've not got far enough in DB to have really got to know the Skaal, I'm too easily distracted...