Thanks people to trying to help me.
For 1st here is the link for the standalone version: http://www.fallout3nexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=1415
For 2nd : its weird for me too but its working. More mutants, more zombies etc. And I use clean save before i Tryed this standalone version. I followed all instruction located in readmy.
For 3: The list from FOMM:
Fallout3.esm
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch.esm
Anchorage.esm
ThePitt.esm
BrokenSteel.esm
PointLookout.esm
Zeta.esm
CALIBR.esm
xCALIBR.esm
ARSENAL MOD.esm
StreetLights.esm
Abbreviated Effects.esm
Xepha's Dynamic Weather.esm
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - Operation Anchorage.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - The Pitt.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - Broken Steel.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - Point Lookout.esp
Unofficial Fallout 3 Patch - Mothership Zeta.esp
Fellout-Full.esp
DarNifiedUIF3.esp
DUIF3Extras.esp
Megaton Tweaks 1.28.esp
CALIBRxMerchant.esp
WasteWearGloves.esp
MegatonContracts.esp
Josef Greys Kozaburo Hair Style for Fallout 3.esp
xCALIBR_override.esp
ARSENAL MOD.esp
Xepha's Dynamic Weather - Main.esp
Ammo Crazy 4.esp
More Ammo.esp
More Ammo (Explosive).esp
dD-Less Blood Time, Larger Blood.esp
13eyes27hairsucanplay.esp
StreetLights - Wasteland.esp
EVE.esp
EVE Operation Anchorage.esp
Rivens_Eyescapes.esp
reduced karma loss for Stealing.esp
Fellout-pipboylight.esp
DK_BulletTime.esp
Toasty's Action Muzzleflash.esp
More Merchant Caps.esp
Tactical Vest CIRAS.esp
Tactical Vest CIRAS - Vendor Restock Script.esp
F3Eyelashes.esp
Advanced Combat Armor.esp
RunFaster125percent.esp
Error Correction - All Transparency.esp
Error Correction.esp
1PipboyPDA.esp
Auto Aim Fix v1.1.esp
MaxLevel100.esp
Slower Degradation (-80%).esp
ROTS3.esp
ShellRain.esp
TimeScaleTo3.esp
B72v3 Clutterfree.esp
B72v3_MHOO.esp
B72v3-03.esp
AdditionalPerks.esp
1Animated Nightvision goggles.esp
eyes_hairpack_en.esp
Night Time Sneak Boost.esp
Xepha's Dynamic Weather - Anchorage.esp
Xepha's Dynamic Weather - The Pitt.esp
Xepha's Dynamic Weather - Broken Steel.esp
Xepha's Dynamic Weather - Point Lookout.esp
LeatherJacketBlack_eng.esp
BlackWolf Backpack - Vendor Script Replenish.esp
BlackWolf Backpack - Blank's Container Patch.esp
Selective Fire.esp
BlackWolf Backpack.esp
A Little Mutant Problem.esp
The_Collector.esp
NotSoFast.esp
ARSENAL MOD_i want buy these weapons.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Increased Increased Spawns.esp
Mart's Mutant Mod - Zones Respawn.esp
Total active plugins: 79
Total plugins: 85
Forgot to tell I'm using FOSE with the latest update to sort my mods.
After I moved the MMM files to the end its looks less crash. But not sure. Go to testing. Be back in 30 min.
Thanks again for helping me XD
EDIT: Nope, its still crashing
sigh....i really don't want to play without. Waiting for help.