jousting is for sissy girls? really? try Jousting thinking that, I'm sure you wont get far.
And I wouldn't try jousting because I'm not a sissy girl. So yes I wouldn't get very far. Regardless, if someone came at me with a stick on horseback it wouldn't really be a fair fight cuz I'd just shoot him. We do have guns irl remember. :shrug:
My point is that jousting is more renaissance fair and Skyrim is grittier and more brutal. Jousting tournaments were just entertainment for nobles and aristocrats.
Like I said before---go watch Valhalla Rising for the arena combat scenes. That is what I want skyrim to be like. Not two wussies on horseback trying to poke each other with sticks to impress some rich lady.