I personally don't think that is enforceable.
Resources? Absolutely. Complete duplication of an ESP/ESM? Yeah, definitely.
A patch to make two mods work together that is literally useless on its own? I find that very hard to defend. I mean, if an author specifically prohibits it, I'd respect that. There are literally hundreds, if not thousands of Oblivion and Skyrim patches that I can guarantee did not consult both authors ahead of time. Especially ones for landscape conflicts.
I just feel this is not where the line should be drawn, but it is a debatable point.