@Phoenix
Have you played Oblivion already? I've played it several times, and completed a big part of quests/guilds at least once. Never the main story though, damn gates.
What sort of things interest you? No idea actually. Im a bit clueless thats why Im looking for some suggestions.
What type of Character do you usually play? (good/evil, theif/mage, roleplayer/random-no-story-hack-and-slasher?) Mixed characters which are capable of using sword, bow and sneaking and magic as a supporting role only. I like things being somewhat more RPG/realistic but not to the point where my character needs to eat every couple of hours.
Are there specific types of mods you think would interest you? (Quests, graphic mods, gameplay mods, overhauls, etc.)Im looking for a mod that improves the game/overhauls it. I mainly want to play something different/better than doing things I've done several times now.
What did you not like about Oblivion? What did Oblivion not have or need more of? It could have more realism, like more realistic behavior of NPC's. I find the amount of weapons/armor lacking. Money is way too easy to gather. Gates bore me to death.
Male or female character? Male
You posted quite some mods and links so I'll take a look into them.
1: Well you might want something new then.Nehrim, Elsweyer, some of the quest mods I listed. Don't worry most quest mods don't have the generic dungeon grinding like the Oblivion gates.
2: I think I may have to expand this question a little. What I meant was: Do you enjoy action, puzzles, romance, cerebral stuff, necromancers, dragons, flying, sixual stuff, fire, etc. Basically whatever genre types you like and whatever your obsessions/fetishes/etc. might be. Me? I have a thing for cerebral stuff, romance, interesting characters, Choices and consequences, multiple solutions, little details, hidden dialogue tidbits, and reactions.... Basically western RPG type stuff.
3: Might want to look into some combat mods... Deadly Reflex and Unnecessary Violence are the most popular ones, but they're also pretty hard to install.http://www.gamesas.com/bgsforums/index.php?showtopic=1053088&hl= might be good too. The http://www.gamesas.com/?showtopic=931523&hl is also very good
4:Well the current recommendations of OOO or TIE are good. You may also want like some guard/crime overhauls, magic overhauls, disease overhauls, and stuff like that. Some mods like that are on my "essential mods" listed earlier... Also, definitely quest mods...
5: Not aware of anything that makes NPCs more realistic... most mods I see that try to, just end up making it worse. ( Like mods that add more NPCs to cities because the cities look unrealistically empty, and.... all the NPCs they add are generic nobodies with no dialogue, or personality, and they have a cookie cutter daily schedule. Integration is a quest mod that has several bases, and at the end there's a town too. All of the characters are well written, they have individual personalities, and very diverse schedules. It won't fix vanilla NPCs, but it should give you a lot of interesting characters to savor.
OOO, Armamentarium, Cobl, and http://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1043692-the-demonic-list-of-leveled-list-mods/ in general will help you add a lot more items. Alsohttp://www.gamesas.com/index.php?/topic/1167983-list-integrated-items/
For gates... well if you hate generic repeated landscapes the Unique Landscapes will help you enjoy the Cyrodiil landscapes more. I believe there was a mod diversifying, and making Oblivion gates more interesting, but I don't think it was ever completed.
6: This one is mostly just in case you asked for armor or whatever. The mods in the two above lists have plenty of male armor/clothing.