With regards to the link posted above by Fredward, shown again http://imgur.com/wA4QYC9 - I don't think that's our male protagonist. I think it's his son. Let me explain why:
Bethesda have used many 'symbolic' references throughout their previous games, and are known for their love of easter eggs (Todd, if you're listening, I'm in no way implying that you guys sit around all day eating chocolate!) I have even suggested a few of these as they could apply to Fallout 4, as seen in my http://www.gamesas.com/topic/1523978-fallout-4-timeline. Two of these references are dates directly linked to the events of Fallout 3 and New Vegas. They are:
2258, the year that the Lone Wanderer was born.
2281, the year that the Courier ended up being shot in the face and then buried alive.
These two dates correspond with what I believe are the dates that the protagonist's spouse and child are taken out of stasis. There are several similarities that would suggest a connection, the two most obvious of which are 1. being 'born/reborn' (into vault 101) and 2. cheating death (not dying after being shot in the face).
Now, assuming that our couple are both around 35 at the start of the game, this would mean that our protagonist as per the trailer would still be 35 upon waking (not counting his time in stasis), his spouse would be 39, and their son would be 27. This would make the in-game difference between the protagonist and his son a mere 8 years, and so they would most likely be very similar in appearance. Also, given the 'journey' we are taken on by our post-war dog starting at the player house, it would seem that this is to mirror the viewpoint of the protagonist and his family as they approach the vault, and so an 'error' of not hiding the player seems unlikely. Finally, our protagonist would not have 'become' the post-war survivor until well after this point, and so the vault suit wouldn't make sense either.
So this mysterious person standing outside of the fence must be someone else, someone we haven't seen yet. In other words, our protagonist's grown up son, standing, watching, waiting. I think that Bethesda may have just sneaked the game's main antagonist right in front of us in the trailer...