Try removing the 'package' and see if it shows up.
Make sure its not 'initially disabled'.
Use a clean save game file. (one where the mod was never active)
Make sure there is no 'script' on it that might do something to it.
I'v tried new game saves and old game saves. None seem to work regardless.
There is no real "Script" however I will remove the package for now to see if maybe it's causing problems.
If I remove the package, this means I must put the character on a path via markers, right?
EDIT:: Well I just opened my .esp file and... well well. Nothing is there anymore... :/
I hate GECK lol