erm, dun wanna try to write spoilers...but i can not get power armor. i just dont get it. and i was caught between a rock and the bunker.....and i have no idea which quest it pertains to other than the fact that i read i shouldve been able to get power armor.

also,..where do i learn more about modding weapons?

In order to get the necessary perk to be able to wear power armour you must complete the quest 'Auld Lang Syne' for Arcade Gannon after he is hired as a follower. Likewise you do get power armour from this mission as well named the 'Enclave Remnants Power Armour'.

After getting the Power armour training perk you can kill a BoS or a NCR Heavy soldier and take them armour and equip it.

how do u get to the enclave remnants one...ive already destroyed the bunker as i got sooooo irritated that they werent doing what i needed them to do.

If you have destroyed the Enclave Remnants Bunker than you cant get it but I think their are others ways to get the perk that allows you to equip power armour. I dont recall the option to destroy the Enclave Remnants bunker as I played that quest months ago so make sure you arent thinking of the BoS bunker.

does anyone know how to get the perk?

Check the wiki, the link is in my signature.

basically im sool then