First off http://images.uesp.net/c/c4/Fishystick.jpg 
As for your question, weather or not you follow the main quest line is really up to weather or not you want dragons. Personally I don't follow the MQ until my sneaky builds are about lv.30(ish). This way your smithing should be good enough for you to improve your gear enough to face a dragon, that is unless you want dragons to spawn. Tis really up to you, do you want to gain more power before you face dragons and Alduin or do you think you can handle it without the aid of the power gained from the other DLCs. And believe me you do gain some interesting things from the other DLCs that will be most useful when completing Skyrims MQ. I can't go into too much detail without making this a spoilers thread BUT trust me when I say that it's worth it to hold off starting the MQ until you finish one or both DLCs, the benefits you gain come in handy 