Look closer, now look closlyeir, Now look closyerer
You will see that she was using the nerevarine the whole time for her own selfish vengence.
This is subjective as anyone is really only using anything through their entire life as a way to postpone death, or more easily said, struggle.
In any way, we could have been being used, but also could have been using her, too. If you were a commoner, and suddenly Azura came up to you and told you that you were the Incarnate, you wouldn't simply shy away, would you?
May she goofed up, and it wasn't meant to be you, but you took the opportunity to make yourself damn famous anyway. And yes, gods CAN mess up. Azura and the Box is a moot point, even, but better is to say...look at Landfall.
There is only so much one can take from upon this thread to see that him being a Bonewalker in Necrom is quite the honor. Like Egyptians, the Dunmare seem to take quite a respect to their dead. Mummification, assimilation, and good old-fashioned dance parties as the spirit rises back to the Dream Sleeve, it's all relevant to each other. The worse fate that Nerevar could have (and did) faced was his own early demise at the Heart Chamber inside Red Mountain, anon Vvardenfell, Shield of the (other?)World. Maybe he would have rather died by the hand of his own mentor, however, than by the hand of a
'lowly' Dwemer or Sixth House agent, who were no-doubt looking frantically for them when someone said 'Hey, where's the general?'
I, personally, wouldn't mind roaming the halls of Necrom. Braziers filled with the bones of the deceased, halls of shadowed sooths, and those Mourning Ordinators...oh, it's enough to make me ask Vivec to do me in as well. But aside from that, there is little more to say that anything lesser did happen to him. All-in-all, very good way to go. At least he died in vane, right?
Wait a minute...