I can understand the frustration from you and the majority of people on the boards. The game is bearly playable from what I'm reading, so unfortunately I'm avoiding it like the plague and just staring at the game case wishing I could play it. The ball is in Obsidians park though, and not Bethseda. Bethseda published, Obsidian developed the game.
I'd say be patient, but I understand. You paid £40/$60 for a game you fully expected to be able to play to it's potential. Not to "workaround" anything. I'm patient, but not 2 weeks for a patch patient. I'd say I'll start pulling my hair out anytime after Tuesday.