I've been lurking/surfing/testing before I really dive in
Right now I've got an "almost vanilla" game installed (GOTY, all official patches and plug-ins, plus the Unofficial patch and MCP).
Are there others you would consider a "must-have" for a new player?
I'm looking more for gameplay than graphics, and I don't want mods that radically change the game. Call me crazy, but I actually LIKE the graphics. (plus I am playing on a crappy lappy) Mods that seriously enhance playability and common sense are what I'm after.
I've looked at MCA and MCE and MGE and LGNPC and some other awesome looking projects, but want a feel for which folk love and think are vital, and which are optional. Some of these are such huge projects that they seem to completely re-make the game (which is not really what I'm after)
So: GOTY patched, Unofficial patch, all Bethesda plug-ins, and MCP. What else for the cautious newb???
thx in adv