Newlywed Arrested After Rushing Wife to Hospital

Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:16 am

He didn't follow normal regulations (if he's a veteran he knows what regulations there are) in saving his wife. Typically when you ignore those regulations and blow through intersections and evade police you're Gung-ho


Apparently summer's post got over-looked in all the hullabaloo.

I will say one thing, time is very important when administering treatment for a stroke and each moment that passes prior to administering tPA or some other thrombolytic agents. The faster the treatment, the less permanent damage such as paralysis, impaired speech and such. Given soon enough, there is frequently almost no impairment at all. If I was a few blocks from a hospital when my hubby or another loved one or even a stranger had what I believed to be a stroke, I would put them in the car and take my chances of a traffic ticket rather than waiting for the time it took to send an ambulance. And I would expect a police officer to hang out until the initial emergency was under control to issue me a ticket. I sure would not expect them to try and stop me from entering the hospital in the middle of it all.

Now that said, we really don't have anyone's description of the event except the couples. So until we know the hospitals side and the police officer's side we really don't have the whole picture. But medical emergencies should come prior to tickets for running a stop light especially when the destination ended up being an emergency room.

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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:24 am

...and you would have been just as wrong to do so as he was.

And it still doesn't change the fact that we get to read a story that's extremely biased in his favour. We have no clue what really happened, we only know what he himself most likely wants people to think happened.


Right, for all we know the guy could have been a total A-hole to the cop, and cops are people too they can get angry (although they should be professional about it). Could be why he blocked the guy, but I still don't see the big deal because his wife still medical treatment right? And people also shouldn't generalize with Police Officers, like people they are all different and have differnet morals and beliefs, tis the flaw of humans. But to think that all of over 3 million law enforcement personel are all jerks because this 1 cop was isn't fair.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:12 am

He didn't follow normal regulations (if he's a veteran he knows what regulations there are) in saving his wife. Typically when you ignore those regulations and blow through intersections and evade police you're Gung-ho

Hey, from what we can tell through our 54 degrees of separation, the situation called for Gung-ho.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 8:13 am

He didn't follow normal regulations (if he's a veteran he knows what regulations there are) in saving his wife. Typically when you ignore those regulations and blow through intersections and evade police you're Gung-ho

Oh gee, regulations? Regulations? Nothing would ever get done in the army if everyone only ever followed regulations! Ask anyone who's served.

The fact is, on the pointy end of things you need to act and make decisions. Nobody died, so it was the right one in this case. Was it the safest option? No - but you don't always have that luxury, nor do you have the luxury of second-guessing yourself. His actions saved a life, he's a bloody hero, and we're quibbling about regulations?

I just hope you never have to make that kind of call...
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:42 am

Just because nothing bad happened in this case doesn't mean he was right to break the rules. Considering the amount of accidents that happen even when everyone is following regulations, its a bloody miracle that no one got injured and no cars got smashed. The rules are there for a reason.

[edit] oh and the cop wasn't right here either.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:11 am

yep
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:36 am

The rules are there for a reason.

Yes they are - to protect people. But when those same rules start hurting people - and I don't mean just inconveniencing them, but actually hurting - then it's time to break those rules. Wasn't there a country founded on similar principles, I'm a little hazy... (and I probably couldn't discuss it even so.)

Does he deserve the ticket? Yes. And I'm sure he agrees, it's part of the risk he was willing to take.

But I'm just glad this is a thread about a near-death experience rather than a too-late experience.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 8:49 am

yep
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 9:44 am

Yes they are - to protect people. But when those same rules start hurting people - and I don't mean just inconveniencing them, but actually hurting - then it's time to break those rules. Wasn't there a country founded on similar principles, I'm a little hazy... (and I probably couldn't discuss it even so.)

Does he deserve the ticket? Yes. And I'm sure he agrees, it's part of the risk he was willing to take.

But I'm just glad this is a thread about a near-death experience rather than a too-late experience.


I completely agree with that statement. :goodjob:

:cookie:? :)
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 2:56 pm

Yes they are - to protect people. But when those same rules start hurting people - and I don't mean just inconveniencing them, but actually hurting - then it's time to break those rules. Wasn't there a country founded on similar principles, I'm a little hazy... (and I probably couldn't discuss it even so.)

Does he deserve the ticket? Yes. And I'm sure he agrees, it's part of the risk he was willing to take.

But I'm just glad this is a thread about a near-death experience rather than a too-late experience.

This, there are no absolutes, there are unique cases, in these cases some rules can be broken. Anyone who disagrees I am willing to bet they would break the rules to save the one they love.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:37 pm

Yes, this is ridiculous :angry:

The article mentioned that he paused at each red light, I'm assuming to check for traffic, so I'm further assuming that he only ran the red lights when he knew it was safe to go. He wasn't endangering anyone, he was still driving safely, just trying to save time. It doesn't sound like it was some Hollywood car chase where he blows through some gigantic New York intersection and cars screech to a halt and two of them flip over and explode in mid-air as he travels through......

Everything this guy did, though it technically broke policy, was absolutely warranted- he needed to get his wife medical attention, and he knew what he had to do in order for that to happen (namely, be there to inform medical staff of his wife's condition, rather than them wasting time trying to figure out what the problem was).

If he had followed "the rules", it could have been her that died and the doctors saying, "if only we had someone here to tell us of her condition before we tried a treatment that we knew would not have worked" :rolleyes:
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:21 pm

Yes, this is ridiculous :angry:

The article mentioned that he paused at each red light, I'm assuming to check for traffic, so I'm further assuming that he only ran the red lights when he knew it was safe to go. He wasn't endangering anyone, he was still driving safely, just trying to save time. It doesn't sound like it was some Hollywood car chase where he blows through some gigantic New York intersection and cars screech to a halt and two of them flip over and explode in mid-air as he travels through......

Everything this guy did, though it technically broke policy, was absolutely warranted- he needed to get his wife medical attention, and he knew what he had to do in order for that to happen (namely, be there to inform medical staff of his wife's condition, rather than them wasting time trying to figure out what the problem was).

If he had followed "the rules", it could have been her that died and the doctors saying, "if only we had someone here to tell us of her condition before we tried a treatment that we knew would not have worked" :rolleyes:


Actually, everything you said is a good reason to go by the rules rather than do what he did.

There are lots of fatal accidents where people have thought it was OK to run a red light and it turns out that it wasn't. High-speed accident = maybe 3 or more dead.

She would have gotten life support and medical attention sooner if he had played by the rules. An ambulance would have responded within the time it took him to get her to the hospital. At that point, they have life support equipment and people ready to use it. Once they were underway, the paramedics would have radioed ahead, and the emergency room would have been advised of her condition and prepared to receive her.

The rules are there because they work better than panicking or going cowboy does.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 1:22 pm

If he had followed "the rules", it could have been her that died and the doctors saying, "if only we had someone here to tell us of her condition before we tried a treatment that we knew would not have worked" :rolleyes:

On this: the signs of stroke are pretty obvious, even to a layman. A doctor would have immediately known what to do and would have done it. Furthermore, according to the linked article, it appears it wasn't a stroke at all. In other words, yes, she could have theoretically died - but not within the specific parameters of this case. That being said, the cop shouldn't have been preventing treatment, as he did not know the facts of the case.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 5:53 pm

Actually, everything you said is a good reason to go by the rules rather than do what he did.

There are lots of fatal accidents where people have thought it was OK to run a red light and it turns out that it wasn't. High-speed accident = maybe 3 or more dead.

She would have gotten life support and medical attention sooner if he had played by the rules. An ambulance would have responded within the time it took him to get her to the hospital. At that point, they have life support equipment and people ready to use it. Once they were underway, the paramedics would have radioed ahead, and the emergency room would have been advised of her condition and prepared to receive her.

The rules are there because they work better than panicking or going cowboy does.


The guy was a medic who served two tours in Iraq. I'm not saying this to mean that he should have a "get out of jail free" card. I'm saying this because it's not like he was an untrained civilian with no medical experience. He probably knows how to handle an emergency situation just as much as any emergency responders do.

I don't know what the situation is where this guy lived, but I do know that there have been issues with ambulance arrival times and things of that sort. This guy was probably just as capable as anyone else to do what he did.

In an emergency situation, you do what you know. For some people, it's call 911 and wait for emergency assistance to arrive. Because what else can you do? For people with training and military experiences, you do what you're trained to do. I think he did what he was trained to do.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 9:30 am

Yeah, it gets tricky. I called 911 on a pedestrian - vehicle hit and run. Basic first response, cover the injuries, secure the head. The guy had massive bleeding from the back of his skull and probably a broken elbow, maybe a hairline fracture on his skull. I told this to the operators, took 5 minutes for a medic car.

Now depending, in a stroke situation 5 minutes + 5 minutes of treated transport vs. 5 minutes of transport + hospital care. No competition.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 6:26 am

Woah, hold your horses!

First, whether or not you are guilty of committing a crime is not based on how admirable a person you generally are. It's not like war veterans get an almighty "Can never commit a crime ever again!"-card to flash to the police whenever they see them. Any such information is entirely irrelevant.

Second, how about we give the policeman the benefit of the doubt here; the article is completely onesided and clearly biased. If you want to assume the role of a judge, which you really have no right to do, you should at least know all the facts before passing judgement.

Third, why don't we just wait for an official verdict before we decide who was in the right on this one? You read one single article on the internet, and suddenly you are wishing bodily harm on someone you don't know anything about whatsoever.

Yeah, I was going to say somewhat of the same thing, but the cop comes off as an ass even in his own statement. Most police officers are competent at their job and make the correct decision, but there's bad folks in every profession.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 6:32 pm

Really, as soon as the cop saw that the final destination was the emergency room, that should have clued him in to the situation. Apparently, you have to gushing blood for anyone to take your medical emergency seriously these days.

Did the guy commit crimes, maybe. I don't know, as has been pointed out, we only really have one side of the story. Though, if a cop was trying to stop me from getting my wife from the medical care which could mean life or death, would I evade arrest, or "assault" him in the manner described here? You bet your ass. F the police and their "authority" in that situation, I'm getting to the hospital.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 2:04 pm

Guy rushes read lights, drives to hospital and rushes out to the ER - As a cop surely common sense should have kicked in and realised "Oh, this is clearly a medical emergency, I'll go off and do something worthwhile"

Edit: Just had an interesting vision in my mind. Robert Picardo appearing "Please state the nature of hte medical emergency" "There's a cop that won't leave me alone".
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 7:36 pm

Hospitals should have a video recording of the incident, if the assault happened on hospital property or around it, no?

This
The tapes will show the absolute truth, not the grooms side, not the cops side, but what actually happened in sight of security cameras once he arrived at the hopsital.

Dogsbody hit the nail on the head.
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Edit: Just had an interesting vision in my mind. Robert Picardo appearing "Please state the nature of hte medical emergency" "There's a cop that won't leave me alone".

Dammit, I'm a hologram, not a police officer! Acivate Emergency Command hologram protocols!
[uniform shimmers to red]


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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 8:34 am

Oh gee, regulations? Regulations? Nothing would ever get done in the army if everyone only ever followed regulations! Ask anyone who's served.

The fact is, on the pointy end of things you need to act and make decisions. Nobody died, so it was the right one in this case. Was it the safest option? No - but you don't always have that luxury, nor do you have the luxury of second-guessing yourself. His actions saved a life, he's a bloody hero, and we're quibbling about regulations?

I just hope you never have to make that kind of call...

Hero?

Since when is needlessly endangering the lives of yourself and innocent people heroic?

There's standing around doing nothing and looking like an idiot and there's doing something that can save the life of another person (ie waiting until the proper medical vehicles show up)

There is also, doing something completely foolish and unnecessary because you're panicking and being an ass, which is what he did

If he happened to strike two pedestrians down when crossing the intersection would you call him a hero then?

A hero is selfless and when you don't think of how your actions could hurt someone else you're not being selfless you're being a moron
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 8:07 pm

If he happened to strike two pedestrians down when crossing the intersection would you call him a hero then?


Exaggerating a little, here? He wasn't driving at reckless speeds and didn't blow through intersections without looking. Calm down, we don't need any giant strawmen.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 2:36 pm

Exaggerating a little, here? He wasn't driving at reckless speeds and didn't blow through intersections without looking. Calm down, we don't need any giant strawmen.

No exaggeration at all

And no need to calm down since I am already calm (don't assume what I am or am not)

Isn't it completely possible that he could have struck down two pedestrians in his haste to get his wife to the hospital?

There are lots of fatal accidents where people have thought it was OK to run a red light and it turns out that it wasn't. High-speed accident = maybe 3 or more dead.

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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 10:12 am

being an ass

:rofl:

I feel bad for whoever you marry dude.
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Post » Thu Jan 07, 2010 4:51 pm

http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ToBeLawfulOrGood
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