You shouldn't have lost them. They just drop on the ground right there. You could have just picked them up. They will still be where they were since the game is persistent.
It is a bit annoying though. I don't give a crap if they can't wear it, they should still be able to carry it in their inventory. I mean, FFS, ED-E can't wear ANY armor or use ANY gun; so why would I need to be reminded of this and just have him spit the stuff back out at me?