Here is my load order...
Oblivion.esm
All Natural Base.esm
Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm
Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm
Mart's Monster Mod.esm
TamrielTravellers.esm
FCOM_Convergence.esm
Better Cities Resources.esm
HorseCombatMaster.esm
HrmnsOblivionScriptOptimizationv1.0.esp
Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp
DLCShiveringIsles.esp
Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp
Better Cities .esp
FCOM_Francescos.esp
FCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.esp
FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp
All Natural.esp
All Natural - SI.esp
Immersive Interiors.esp
Immersive Interiors - Lights Addon.esp
All Natural - Real Lights.esp
personality_idles4.esp
P1DrobesOver.esp
ReneerVariedNPCsMod.esp
Enhanced Economy.esp
moDem's City Life.esp
DropLitTorchOBSE.esp
P1DlookHereYou.esp
Streamline 3.1.esp
Map Marker Overhaul.esp
Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions.esp
Expanded Hotkeys and Spell Delete V2.esp
Rope Ladders v1.esp
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp
OOO-Water_Weeds.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Additional Enemy NPC Vars.esp
FCOM_Convergence.esp
FCOM_RealSwords.esp
FCOM_DurabilityAndDamage.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - More Wilderness Life.esp
FCOM_SaferRoads.esp
FCOM_LessRats.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Extra Wounding.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Quest Locations.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse WaterLife.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Slof Horses Complete.esp
TamrielTravellerAdvscript.esp
TamrielTravellers4OOO.esp
TamrielTravellersItemsnpc.esp
TamrielTravellersItemsVendor.esp
ShiveringIsleTravellers.esp
ShiveringIsleTravellersFriendlyFactions.esp
FCOM_TamrielTravelers.esp
FCOM_DiverseGuardUnity.esp
FCOM_HungersUnitySI.esp
FCOM_FriendlierFactions.esp
FCOM_MoreRandomSpawns.esp
FCOM_MoreRandomItems.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp
OOO-WaterFish.esp
Scribe Supplies.esp
VaultsofCyrodiilBC.esp
Knights.esp
FCOM_Knights.esp
Harvest [Flora].esp
Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp
Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 CT.esp
Exterior Actors Have Torches 1.3 CT.esp
GP_Lockpicks.esp
P1DkeyChain.esp
PersuasionOverhaul_LITE.esp
RenCorpseMod.esp
ScriptIcon_Replacer.esp
RealisticForceMedium.esp
RealisticMagicForceMedium.esp
RealSleepExtended.esp
Addendum - Vampires.esp
SupremeMagicka.esp
SM_ShiveringIsles.esp
SM_OOO.esp
SM_MMM.esp
SM_EnchantStaff.esp
SM_UnlockSpells.esp
SM_Scrolls.esp
MidasSpells.esp
Enchantment Enhanced.esp
EnchantmentRestore.esp
EnchantmentRestore_Wells.esp
StealthOverhaul.esp
Stealth Entrances v1.esp
RenGuardOverhaul.esp
Denock Arrows.esp
Deadly Reflex 6 - Timed Block with no damage or durability changes.esp
Mounted_Spellcasting_Deadly_Reflex_Compatible.esp
DRSplatter.esp
Francesco's Slower skills x1.5.esp
bgBalancingEVCore.esp
Better Cities Full.esp
Better Cities - VWD of the IC.esp
Better Imperial City.esp
Better Imperial City FPS Patch.esp
Better Cities Full FPS Patch.esp
Francesco's 10 days respawn time - 1-20 day lenght rescale.esp
P1DshieldNoGlow.esp
FCOM_Archery.esp
Argonians and Khajiit Lose Tails no More Script.esp
DeadlyReflex 6 - Combat Moves.esp
Expanded Hotkeys and Spell Delete manual.esp
All armor and SE armor playable.esp
SkillsOver100.esp
Duke Patricks - BASIC Script Effect Silencer NIF REMOVED.esp
Bashed Patch, 0.esp