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When you ran the LAA patcher, it created a backup of the file it edited. Do a test. Move your obse_loader.dll to a temporary folder outside of Oblivion folder. Rename the obse_loader.BAK to obse_loader.dll. Now launch the game.
I believe you will still experience the LAA benefit in your game. If the test fails, you can easily restore your patched obse loader, and I will remain utterly perplexed.
I'm asking you to do this, because, while there is a legitimate reason to run this patcher on the Oblivion.exe, it is not a good idea to encourage people to start using the utility to edit just any old file in hopes that something beneficial will happen.
I also find no reason at all to believe that editing the obse dll file can do anything. I'm interested in accurate information being disseminated, not guesswork regarding executable files. There's a reason why shying away from messing with executable files is good safe practice.
gothemasticator
I dident know that....I already had a back-up....I have a backup of every Oblivion .exe also...pre patch....Pre SI..ect ect. See Below for response....
That's probably the problem. As requested, not discussing further.
EDITING to add the word "probably". I shouldn't just blindly say that it IS the problem

I think there is a mix up here..I dont have a problem at all ..I was trying to help.....
Ahh, makes sense... :facepalm:
Again I dident have a problem..I can make oblivion use 3.8 gig of mem.....
OK I did what was Suggested in the above Response from GTM. NOW once again I have not had a problem But In Doing this i will concede that it is NOT necessary to patch OBSE..But I will continue to have the Flag Flipped for me and this is Why.....
I did as requested ..UNdid the patch on OBSE... I did the Same thing every time. use my current save in Chedinal....Left and headed Due South....
1) Crash at 2:10 (yes thats 2 mins) Mem seen in Program Manager 1,200,100
2) Crash at 9:31 Mem 1,466,164
3) Crash at 11:03 Mem 1,616,744
REdid the patch for OBSE
1) Dident Crash...made it all the way to Topal bay so headed west, followed the coast up and around Layawyne continued and crossed to other side and headed to Bravil at this point I was not paying attention to the Idiots I had in toe...I met a few Deserters?...and in the insuing battle i was killed ...Sigh....but Leaving Oblivion I have the most important Screen shot for me....
1) 47 mins - Mem 2,223,980 It would have gone on like usual, Hours & Hours of Play time no Crashes! But i died!!!
Like i said...Yes Oblivion Might want to use the flag, But I cant seam to get it to use it. So that is why I suggested that the Other poster try it and see if they also could benefit Like I have. My game I perfectly Stable With OBSE patched, and without well as you can see not so much. Yes I saved all the screen shots . But I think that Many Here know way more on this then I do . I don't Know why I am Rock stable this way Just that I am!!
I never changed a thing, No restarts of computer. Only thing I did was undo then redo! But if this helps spur on discussion I am all for that.
Like I said I wont Suggest this any More.