I've just bought myself a copy of Oblivion. (I run Linux and it normally takes a while before the windows emulator wine catches up with a game enough to make it properly playable, so I tend to buy games that are a couple of years old.) My first impression was that the graphics are awesome, and that someone in the production team was a bit of a grrm fan (as am I).
I've been playing it for about a week now and I've played around the main plot mostly - mainly trying to get my recommendation to the mages guild. But now I think it's all gone a bit wrong. I lost my horse quite early on - it disappeared from the stable where I'd left it, and it took me the longest time to realise that if I travelled automatically it would reappear. So I've spent a lot of time running from point A to point B.
Typically my game play will be: trying to go from Kvatch to Skingrad or somesuch as part of a mission, so I spend most of my time running through lovely rendered countryside. However after a bit of play the monsters I encountered on my way started to become more than it was trivial to deal with, so now most of my play is spent running backward firing hundreds of weak fireballs at a pursuing burning bear. (This is as I still can't afford or cast a better spell.) During this time my destruction skill will increase a couple of times and my athletics will increase as well, so I'll level up. So I'm thinking the creatures are hard but at least I'm getting better. But they are getting tougher and bigger things start appearing, so I start wandering around relentlessly casting low level magic (still all I have, but deliberately in this case to improve my skills). And the baddies keep getting tougher. Now when I kill a bandit I'm getting glass armour or enchanted elven armour, so now I can start to afford the more powerful magic spells and my sills are up to a level where I can just about cast them, so I try them out and discover that the new powerful heat blast I've been working toward now does less damage to a creature than the weak fireball did at the start! And it uses all my magica to cast. Frustrating as hell.
During this time I realised that the creature levels were tied to your own level, so it's a disadvantage to level up unless you're willing to engage in some serious power player style play.
I set out with the intention of playing in the mindset of my character but now I realise that natural play forces you into a spiral of worsening comparative stats.
I suspect that this has been commented on many times by others. I've noticed that there are mods to change the gameplay with regards to character development. I'm not wanting the game to be a push over but if you get stuck at a bady I think that going off and completing a few other quests should allow you to get past them - not make them harder (forcing you to use sneaky plays. Like paralysing them before you attack). Does anyone have a recommended mod for quality natural character play?