Not at all. We're just members here who joined the same way you did, but after a time were considered to be "helpful" so were asked to assist the community managers (who are staff) in keeping the forums problem-free. We have individual opinions just like any other member. As to Bethesda being expected to support every combination of drivers and software on an individual's PC, I certainly didn't take that attitude when Mass Effect 2 caused all my games to stop working. I just hunted around to make sure my set-up supported the games by downloading this-and-that and eventually got it all working harmoniously, because PCs are just not a plug-and-play system. I honestly don't believe it's possible for them to test every single combination of software. All I know is that I had a brand new-out-of-the-box PC for Fallout 3 and had zero issues, and once I'd fixed the driver problems for ME2 I've had no further issues since with any of the games I've tried - though I do empathise that it was pretty miserable when my drivers were wrong.
Sorry that dog aint gonna hunt.
I always view it as being like the difference between a short story and an epic novel. I've come across loads of typos in Stephen King's Dark Tower series of books so far, and you could say, "Wow - 18 misspelled words! That's appalling!", or you could think, "Well, if each book is 800 pages and there's 7 of them, then the law of averages is that if one word in each 300 pages is spelled wrong, that's still only a normal average." At the same error rate, a regular novel of 299 pages would have no errors at all - but that doesn't mean it's miraculously better, only that there's less of it to screw up. Similarly, look at the frankly epic http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0167260/goofs. Does that mean that the film is sloppy and nobody bothered to get it right? At only 82 minutes, http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0139414/goofs is considerably shorter, but I don't think that's an indicator of superior quality.
Just a "moderator note" here, I've had to edit out a couple of insults from this thread. Please be respectful towards other members. There's no excuse for rudeness.