This was your argument:
Nothing I said backed that up

There is already a way to "balance" the game to the player, it's called the DIFFICULTY SLIDER. This is what all perks/classes/etc should be balanced to, that is the
whole point of it.
The idea that picking different skills should be the way to "balance" the game is perfectly ridiculous. Different skills should make the gameplay different but the difficulty
the same.
I don't want anything "removed" because it is too powerful, I want it to be
balanced so that it doesn't break my game. Leveling smithing/enchanting should not make the game "easy mode", moving the slider to novice (or whatever it is) should make the game "easy mode".
I don't care if people get a kick out of breaking the game. But this should not happen in standard game play, and certainly not on maximum difficulty.
All the things you mentioned that have been "removed" from the game are in fact IN the game and perfectly viable. 100% Chameleon was OP and quite ridiculous, I can't understand why anyone would want to play the game that way, other than for a laugh. That is the sort of stupid OP "god mode" thing that should only be achievable as a cheat imo.
You can make creatures kill each other, yes. You can't use "control humanoids/creature" any more. Control humanoids was better because, any mob that saw you, and ran to engage you, would IMMEDIATELY turn around and start attacking one of your enemies, or just stand there. With fury/rage there is still a good chance that it will just keep attacking you. It was NERFED. But I liked the Oblivion "control". This is what made illusion FUN.
With invisibility in Oblivion, soon as you went invisible, the mob couldn't "see you", it would just run around swinging at the air. With Skyrim, turning invisible while in melee combat is pointless...nothing can get the mob off of then, except killing it. It was NERFED. not removed. NERFED. But I liked this...the Oblivion Invisibility is what made Illusion FUN.
You took away MY ability to use those fun things, because YOU couldn't just NOT use the most powerful spell. You HAD TO use the most powerful spell regardless. And it was too easy for you. So for YOUR OWN ENJOYMENT, you ruined MY Enjoyment. When you could have just NOT MADE IT TOO EASY on your own. You made Bethesda take fun from me, instead of learning how to have more fun for yourself. That is as simply as I can state it. Well...at least until I think of a better way, IF I can think of a better way to say it.
You screwed me over for your own benefit, when you didn't have to, you just wanted to.
That simpler? Too simple? Had to use hyperbole to set my meaning in higher contrast. But it may be oversimplification. Instead of doing something for yourself, you did something TO ME.
And use "should" allot. There is no "should", All mentioned concepts are entirely subjective. "Should" is just your opinion. Yet your statements seem to indicate you think it is somehow concrete, objective, and so it's only right. Like the laws of nature and thermodynamics have decided how a game SHOULD be, and what I suggest is unnatural? LOL..

Ok...that's more hyperbole.

Hm...having Bethesda nerf those abilities, nerfs EVERYONE. Even alll those that didn't want to be nerfed. It makes you happy, but me sad. Heres the thing YOU AREN'T PLAYING MY GAME. I liked those abilities. But because YOU didn't like them, I can no longer have them

. And you could have just not done, what you didn't like, and I would still be able to use those abilities like I want to.
oh and P.S. When I use ALL CAPITALS, I'm not yellinjg. I'm stressing the concept. It would probably only take 5 minutes to learn how to use italics. I just haven't.