I'm pretty sure it's a gameplay limitation - and not that they're meant to be indestructable.
If the devs didn't have to worry about hand-holding so much (though I must admit, it's nowhere near as bad as Oblivion), they might have made it so you had to repair it and everything.
To be honest, I would like to see that, it would add more realism to the game and it'd be a good way of solving the hand-holding problem that people complain about.
Did you also notice that the arm with your Pipboy
never leaves your body? Even if the rest of your limbs get blown off?