Am I just really bad at keeping track of things or does piper think just because ive done a little flirting that she can eat my meat?
Is this a piper problem or is it normal for companions to consume items in their inventory.
I don't know I never used her, but it would be a nice touch that your companions get hungry from time to time. I prefer codsworth to piper because codsworth gives you purified water and piper only gives you a cheap cake or something.
Afaik, companions sometimes loot items from the ground or from fallen enemies as well. Dogmeat will, for example, on occasions pick up weapons from the ground, and carry it in his mouth to my location and drop it in front of me.
Yes even settlers pick up weapons to use from battlefield, but it has to be in ongoing combat and they will take weapons and power armour to use... i love that bit though.
About companions with explosives and missile launchers and such: there is a Charisma (8) Perk called Inspirational that disables damage to and from companions, as well as boosting their carrying capacity. Not sure exactly by how much.
So yeah, you can sit back and watch Nick Valentine shoot Molerats with a missile launcher without fear!