For Morrowind I managed to get my game under control and there were some good levelling mods to suit my style so i didn't need to obsess over what to train next - I have Oblivion on console so still chew off my nails at character creation pre-planning the game before even leaving the sewers
I just hope player levelling is a bit more seamless in Skyrim so some of us with OCD can just enjoy the world more
If you want to post in this thread would you please also note whether you to are hung up on the efficient levelling approach or just take it as it comes