I use the Primary needs HUD (and unified HUD projecct..started a new game..HUD worked fine...i just loaded up a save and...no more HUD T_T

flagged the HUD options item as playable in GECK to make shure it was still in my inventory, it's still there. The HUD just doesn't appear anymore.

FalloutNV.esm
Achievement Remover.ESM
VMods - Master.esm
Achievement Remover.esp
VMods.esp
SaveKey.esp
Centered 3rd Person Camera.esp
T3T_MiscItemIconsNV.esp
DarNifiedUINV.esp
Primary Needs HUD.esp
Dan's Presidential Upgrade.esp
ImmaSightinMahLazor.esp
Karma Fix - NCRCF Powder Ganger.esp
Kobu's Sortable Crafting Backpack.esp
ExtendedNVRadio.esp
Companion Sandbox Mode.esp
URWLNV.esp
ArmourRepairKits.esp
MyFirstCookbook.esp

Total active plugins: 19
Total plugins: 19

I use Fallout Mod Manager 0.13.17 by Timeslip for my load order

Does it appear if you load that save just after starting the game? I mean, not starting from another save and then switching to that one?

There might be an issue with a "GetGameLoaded" working like a "GetGameRestarted" instead.

Also check your hud_main_menu.xml file to make sure its being loaded at the end of it.
It should be at 2nd to last line of it. Something like

how bizzare, if I start a new game, the HUD's there, I then quit to main menu, load my save, the HUD appears for about 1/2 second then vanishes @_@

Yeah, sounds like a variable is being affected incorrectly by game loading. Turned off when it needs to be turned on or something.

:(