» Thu Jan 20, 2011 2:40 am
If you want to make friends, play nice. If you want to have fun, play how you want. If you want to be respected, play fair. If you want to win, do what is necessary.
This does NOT mean you have to pick one of these to abide by. Take bad company 2 for example... most people abuse OP guns, teabag enemies, rage, teamkill, leave angry messages, abuse the map just to win. But these guys are pretty well known for the way they play, the top players in the game are notorious for spawn camping with the helicopters and leaving games if they don't get their helicopter. They pretty much play for their own enjoyment at the expense of others, and do whatever they can to win. If you don't do lame things like use rocket launchers to kill others, snipe the whole match, or use unbalanced weapons your opponents will know they died because you caught them, instead of dying because you had a lame edge on them with hardware. If you don't send hate mail, teabag, and message people "good game" after its over and it was close they will like to play with/against you. If you want to have fun, you don't HAVE to pick a class that is needed unless not doing so will get you spawn camped and distract from your fun... there are plenty of ways to play as a team using the weapon/class of your choosing to aid them and win. But at the end of the day, as long as you are trying your hardest to help the team and win, your teammates will like you because they know everyone was trying as hard as they were.
In bad company 2, most of the friends I play with are opponents that I contacted, or they contacted me after a game was over and was really intense. You don't see 1/3rd of you friendlies names when playing they are just "blues", but the enemies you die by are bannered on your screen at every death. Most people know your name, not by playing in your squad, but from playing against you. If you respect your enemy, they will respect you back.
If you spawn snipe, chopper wh*re, or spam the rocket launchers... it just means I'm going to try extra hard to knife you, blow you up, or couter rocket you respectively. Not because it necessarily is fun for me, but because most people don't realize how unfair and demoralizing their playstyle is until someone better at it than them returns the favor.