Well I am stumped. I have tried deleting all the meshes and textures under characters. Uninstalled a couple mods. I reinstalled all the hair replacers and face replacers... got rid of countless mods. anyway... It started out with only a few affected npc's and not the actual player or women. Now it affects the the player as well as every npc.
The weird bug looks like this
http://i441.photobucket.com/albums/qq134/element14album/ScreenShot1.jpg
http://i441.photobucket.com/albums/qq134/element14album/ScreenShot03.jpg
http://i441.photobucket.com/albums/qq134/element14album/ScreenShot02.jpg
It is slightly difficult to see in those pics, this one clearly shows it http://i441.photobucket.com/albums/qq134/element14album/ScreenShot04.jpg
As the photos depict, the faces of all characters in my game sag heavily on the rleft hand side. The right eye is also closer to the nose than the left, and finally, the brow on the right hand side is higher than the left and strangely arched.

Active Mod Files:00  Oblivion.esm01  Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm02  Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm03  Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm  [Version 1.34]04  Mart's Monster Mod.esm  [Version 3.7b3p3]05  FCOM_Convergence.esm  [Version 0.9.9MB3]06  Armamentarium.esm  [Version 1.3]07  Artifacts.esm08  Better Cities Resources.esm09  Progress.esm  [Version 2.2]**  TNR ALL RACES FINAL.esp**  TNR - ShiveringIsles.esp0A  Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp  [Version 3.2.3]0B  UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp  [Version 1.0.0]0C  DLCShiveringIsles.esp0D  Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp  [Version 1.4.0]0E  Better Cities .esp0F  Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp10  Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp11  Francesco's Optional Chance of More Enemies.esp12  Francesco's Optional Leveled Guards.esp13  FCOM_Francescos.esp  [Version 0.9.9]14  FCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.esp  [Version 0.9.9]15  FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp  [Version 0.9.9]16  Natural_Habitat_by_Max_Tael.esp17  Enhanced Water v2.0 HD.esp18  WindowLightingSystem.esp19  ClocksOfCyrodiil.esp1A  Enhanced Economy.esp  [Version 3.2.1]1B  moDem's City Life.esp1C  MaleBodyReplacerV3.esp1D  StockClothingArmor-forExnems.esp1E  Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp1F  FCOM_BobsArmory.esp  [Version 0.9.9]20  Oblivion WarCry EV.esp21  FCOM_WarCry.esp  [Version 0.9.9MB3]22  Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp  [Version 1.34]23  OOO-Water_Weeds.esp  [Version 1.33]24  ArmamentariumArtifacts.esp  [Version 1.3]25  FCOM_Convergence.esp  [Version 0.9.9Mb3]26  FCOM_EntropicOrderhardcoe.esp  [Version 0.9.9]27  FCOM_RealSwords.esp  [Version 0.9.9]28  Mart's Monster Mod - More Wilderness Life.esp  [Version 3.7b3]29  FCOM_SaferRoads.esp  [Version 0.9.9]2A  FCOM_NoReaversInGates.esp  [Version 0.9.9]2B  Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures.esp  [Version 3.7b3]2C  Mart's Monster Mod - Less Bone Loot.esp  [Version 3.7b1]2D  Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp  [Version 3.7b3]2E  Mart's Monster Mod - Gems & Gem Dust.esp  [Version 3.7b3]2F  Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp  [Version 3.7b3p3]30  Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp31  Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse WaterLife.esp  [Version 3.7b3p3]32  Mart's Monster Mod - Slof Horses Complete.esp  [Version 3.7b3]33  FCOM_DiverseGuardUnity.esp  [Version 0.9.9]34  FCOM_HungersUnitySI.esp  [Version 0.9.9]35  FCOM_MoreRandomItems.esp  [Version 0.9.9]36  Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp37  ArmamentariumLL4OOO.esp  [Version 2.0]38  OOO-WaterFish.esp  [Version 1.34]39  Artifacts.esp3A  LetThePeopleDrink.esp  [Version 2.5]3B  mrSiikas_BetterPorts_Seagulls.esp3C  Knights.esp3D  FCOM_Knights.esp  [Version 0.9.9Mb3]3E  ElsweyrAnequina.esp3F  xuldarkforest.esp  [Version 1.0.3]40  xulStendarrValley.esp  [Version 1.2.1]41  xulTheHeath.esp42  XulEntiusGorge.esp43  xulFallenleafEverglade.esp  [Version 1.3.1]44  xulColovianHighlands_EV.esp45  xulChorrolHinterland.esp  [Version 1.2.2]46  xulBeachesOfCyrodiilLostCoast.esp47  xulBravilBarrowfields.esp  [Version 1.3.2]48  xulLushWoodlands.esp  [Version 1.3]49  xulAncientYews.esp  [Version 1.4.1]4A  xulAncientRedwoods.esp  [Version 1.6]4B  xulCloudtopMountains.esp  [Version 1.0.1]4C  xulArriusCreek.esp  [Version 1.1.2]4D  xulPatch_AY_AC.esp  [Version 1.1]4E  xulRollingHills_EV_withoutWheat.esp  [Version 1.3.2]4F  xulRollingHills_EV.esp  [Version 1.3.2]50  xulPantherRiver.esp51  xulRiverEthe.esp  [Version 1.0.1]52  xulBrenaRiverRavine.esp  [Version 1.0.2]53  xulBlackwoodForest.esp54  Alternate Start Revamped.esp55  SupremeMagicka.esp  [Version 0.89]56  SM_ShiveringIsles.esp  [Version 0.86]57  SM_OOO.esp  [Version 0.89]58  SM_EnchantStaff.esp  [Version 0.80]59  SM_UnlockSpells.esp  [Version 0.70]5A  SM_Scrolls.esp  [Version 0.84]5B  StealthOverhaul.esp5C  RenGuardOverhaul.esp5D  RenGuardOverhaulShiveringIsles.esp5E  nGCD.esp5F  ProgressGSD.esp  [Version 2.0]60  ProgressMBSP.esp  [Version 2.0]61  ProgressSBSP.esp  [Version 1.0]62  ProgressRBSP.esp  [Version 1.0]63  ProgressArmorer.esp  [Version 1.0]64  Better Cities Full.esp65  Better Cities - Unique Landscape Barrowfields.esp66  Better Cities - Unique Landscape Chorrol Hinterland.esp67  Better Cities - No LEYAWIIN Flooding.esp68  Better Imperial City.esp69  Bashed Patch, 0.esp6A  Streamline 3.1.esp

I also have; Vibrant Oblivion installed, improved facial textures, Robert's male body V37z-8295, Vanilla Hair replacer, Natural Faces, and TNR (through bashed patch.)
As a sidenote Roberts and all of the replacers minus TNR were added after the bug appeared... and all the children in MoDem's were also bald before this... huh the Modem's kids also have correct faces...
I would appreciate any help I can get. I am utterly stumped.

That would be a fault of the head mesh (but I hardly find it noticeable...) You can install a different head mesh if you want (i.e., ThrottleKitty's)

Throttlekitty seems to reccomend not using his mod as a replacer. Which Mesh is causing the problem?

There is also asymmetry allowed by the game. Should've mentioned that earlier... Make sure that you do not have a head mesh installed in the "Meshes\Characters\_" Male folder. If something is installed there, you have not been testing vanilla Oblivion's mesh. You can use OBMM's data browser to find out which mod owns that mesh too...kind of...hopefully. OBMM's conflict reporting is terrible...


Edit: The thing is... (OBMM) If you install mods with overlapping files, and later uninstall the one installed latest, the (overlapping) files of the latest mod will still be installed. Unless you were reinstalling mods as you removed the others, your tests may have turned up unreliable results.

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The asymmetry could be part of the default facegen settings. Cosmetic mods may change those settings.


Edit: TNR may change the asymmetry for individual NPCs as well.

Is there anyway I can directly fix the asymmetry? At the moment it seems alot easier. Ok I didn't mind TNR changing asymmetry on some NPC's, but it is effecting everything now. Including the female characters and my own character gen... Rebuilt the bashed patch without TNR, didn't fix it.

As Vader would say........"Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo"

This is not a "fix" issue. This is a matter of taste, I suppose. Therefore, you could only (in your opinion) fix the asymmetry by tweaking each of the thousand NPC faces that TNR edits or something along those lines. Maybe changing the facegen settings would reduce the effect some though...

not sure what you were referring to (within my post). But god it made me laugh.

probably, the (not) "fix"... The problem with your question is that the problem you've pointed out is not really a problem. It is more of a design thing (that you happen to dislike, quite a bit it seems...)

I just don't understand how TNR would still be affecting things when it isn't activated AND it isn't in the bashed patch... hmmm... Well I think I just found a good excuse to install the new FCOM lol. Clean install here I come. Hmmm before I go nutts and spend hours reinstalling and downloading everything I currently have. How would I change the facegen settings?

You can do that through TESCS, but prepare for a lot of grievances between the disparity between the TESCS render window and the in-game appearance. Getting faces right requires much back and forth.

Fair enough. That is, more or less, exactly the situation I just do not care for everyface in my game to look like http://i441.photobucket.com/albums/qq134/element14album/ScreenShot04.jpg. I wouldn't mind it as much if it were only a few people... But it makes facegenning impossible for me and honestly drives me nutts.
Oh boy through the CS... Yeah I just tried that. More frustrating than doing a clean install with fewer than 100 mods. Sorry for taking up so much of everyone's time. I really appreciate the help though. Hopefully this was a one time weird bug, that I obviously caused, that messed with either the default mesh or the facegen settings (reffering to TNR going insane and making EVERYTHING have that face effect). Thank you once again for your patience and time Tom, I really appreciate it.

The TESCS face editing is more advanced. I may make a small tweak to a face in-game, but I primarily use TESCS to make faces. The in-game menu is very limited in comparison to what you can do outside of the game. (TESCS is no the only face making utility that can be used to generate faces for Oblivion.) I was suggesting, as a way to save time and energy, that you modify the facegen setting for races, instead of individual faces.

Yeah i understood that. I was just having alot of trouble trying to get half of one side to move a quater up, for the head to rotate about 10 degrees clockwise, and to realign the eyes. Nah I would rather just backup my saves and trash it. I needed the cleaning for the new FCOM anyway.