Thanks for the link. Though his advice is confusing me a little, i.e. he talks about resetting timestamps to 2006. I have no idea why and I don't even know how!
I do believe you mean 'her advice.'
Don't worry about it, gender confusion is all but rampant on the internet. Sadly, I'm not too sure about the whole timestamp thing, either; Tomlong or someone else would most likely know more.
Also, in the OBMM settings, what does 'never modify load order' mean? Should I leave it unchecked?
This I do know. This essentially locks your load order in place, so you can't modify it. I assume (I haven't used it much, myself) that it'd be useful for keeping your load order once you have everything working properly.