Here's my load order, so says wyre bash. It was mostly decided by BOSS, but I made a couple of optional changes, namely putting LAME before Supreme Magicka, and moving my animation replacers to after Bashed path (they weren't working otherwise).
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Active Mod Files:00 Oblivion.esm01 Jog_X_Mod.esm02 ScreenEffects.esm03 All Natural Base.esm [Version 0.9.9.5]04 Cobl Main.esm [Version 1.71]05 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm [Version 1.33]06 Mart's Monster Mod.esm [Version 3.7b3p3]07 Mart's Monster Mod for OOO.esm [Version 0.9.9MB3]08 TamrielTravellers.esm [Version 1.39c]09 Kvatch Rebuilt.esm0A Better Cities Resources.esm0B bookplacing.esm [Version 1]0C CM Partners.esm0D CustomSpellIcons.esm0E Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.2.7]0F UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp [Version 1.0.0]10 Oblivion Citadel Door Fix.esp11 DLCShiveringIsles.esp12 Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.4.0]13 Better Cities .esp14 LoadingScreens.esp15 All Natural - Real Lights.esp [Version 0.9.9.5]16 All Natural.esp [Version 0.9.9.5]17 All Natural - SI.esp [Version 0.9.9.5]18 Kvatch Rebuilt Weather Patch.esp++ Louder Nirnroot Sound.esp19 Rainbows.esp1A WindowLightingSystem.esp1B Book Jackets Oblivion - BP.esp1C Ultimate 3rd Person Camera.esp++ Item interchange - Extraction.esp [Version 0.74]1D Enhanced Economy.esp [Version 4.2.1]1E Map Marker Overhaul.esp [Version 3.5.2]1F Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions.esp [Version 3.5]20 DLCHorseArmor.esp21 DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]22 DLCOrrery.esp23 DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.3]24 DLCVileLair.esp25 DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]26 DLCMehrunesRazor.esp27 DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]28 DLCSpellTomes.esp++ DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.1]29 Book Jackets DLC.esp++ EVE_StockEquipmentReplacer.esp2A BlackLuster.esp2B BlackLuster 2SwordStyle.esp2C Hentai_SnowFlower.esp2D Hiyoko_Store.esp2E kitsune.esp2F DLCThievesDen.esp30 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]31 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch - SSSB.esp [Version 1.0.4]32 Cobl Glue.esp [Version 1.69]33 Cobl Si.esp [Version 1.63]34 OOO 1.32-Cobl.esp [Version 1.69]++ Cobl Tweaks.esp [Version 1.44]35 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp [Version 1.33]36 Mart's Monster Mod for OOO.esp [Version 0.9.9MB3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]37 Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Less Reavers.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod for OOO - LessReaversInGates.esp [Version 0.9.9MB3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Roads.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - No Blood.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]38 Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Quest Locations.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]39 Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]3A Mart's Monster Mod - More Wilderness Life No Gates.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - More Passive Wildlife.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]3B Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ TamrielTravellerAdvscript.esp [Version 1.39c]3C TamrielTravellers4OOO.esp [Version 1.39c]3D TamrielTravellersItemsCobl.esp [Version 1.39c]3E ShiveringIsleTravellers.esp [Version 1.39c]++ ShiveringIsleTravellersFriendlyFactions.esp [Version 1.39c]++ EVE_StockEquipmentReplacer for OOO.esp3F Hentai Mania.esp40 Kragenir's Death Quest.esp41 KDQ - Rural Line Additions.esp42 Kvatch Rebuilt.esp++ Kvatch Rebuilt - OOO Compatibility.esp43 Romuska Fantasy Store.esp44 thievery.esp45 thievery - EE patch.esp [Version 4.2]46 Tona's_ModsStore.esp47 DLCBattlehornCastle.esp48 DLCBattlehornCastle - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]49 DLCFrostcrag.esp4A DLCFrostcrag - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]4B Knights.esp4C Knights - Book Jackets.esp4D Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.9]++ EVE_KnightsoftheNine.esp++ Mart's Monster Mod for OOO - Knights .esp [Version 0.9.9MB3]4E The Lost Spires.esp4F xuldarkforest.esp [Version 1.0.5]50 LostSpires-DarkForest patch.esp51 xulStendarrValley.esp [Version 1.2.2]52 xulTheHeath.esp53 XulEntiusGorge.esp54 xulFallenleafEverglade.esp [Version 1.3.1]55 LostSpires-Everglade patch.esp [Version 1.2]56 xulColovianHighlands_EV.esp [Version 1.2.1]57 xulChorrolHinterland.esp [Version 1.2.2]58 xulBeachesOfCyrodiilLostCoast.esp [Version 1.6.4]59 KragenirsDeathQuest-LostCoast patch.esp5A xulBravilBarrowfields.esp [Version 1.3.2]5B xulLushWoodlands.esp [Version 1.3]5C xulAncientYews.esp [Version 1.4.2]5D xulAncientRedwoods.esp [Version 1.6]5E xulCloudtopMountains.esp [Version 1.0.3]5F KragenirsDeathQuest-CloudtopMountains patch.esp60 xulArriusCreek.esp [Version 1.1.3]61 xulPatch_AY_AC.esp [Version 1.1]62 xulRollingHills_EV.esp [Version 1.3.2]63 xulPantherRiver.esp64 xulRiverEthe.esp [Version 1.0.2]65 xulBrenaRiverRavine.esp [Version 1.0.2]66 xulImperialIsle.esp [Version 1.6.5]67 xulBlackwoodForest.esp68 xulCheydinhalFalls.esp [Version 1.0.1]69 KvatchRebuilt-CheydinhalFalls patch.esp6A xulAspenWood.esp [Version 1.0.1]6B xulSkingradOutskirts.esp6C Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCVileLair.esp [Version 3.0.0]6D Harvest [Flora] - DLCFrostcrag.esp [Version 3.0.0]6E Birthsigns Expanded.esp [Version 3.11.]6F Cliff_BetterLetters.esp [Version 1.1]70 Salmo the Baker, Cobl.esp [Version 3.08]71 Wrye Shivering.esp [Version 08]72 Quest Award Leveller.esp++ Quest Award Leveller - Battlehorn Castle.esp++ Quest Award Leveller - Vile Lair.esp++ Quest Award Leveller - Mehrunes Razor.esp++ Quest Award Leveller - Knights of the Nine.esp73 RealisticFatigue.esp74 RealSleepExtended.esp [Version 2.3.4]75 bgMagicEV.esp [Version 1.7EV]++ bgMagicSpellTomes_for_WryeBash.esp [Version 1.68EV]++ bgMagicItemSigil.esp [Version 1.68EV]++ bgMagicEVStartspells.esp [Version 1.68EV]++ bgMagicEVAddEnVar.esp [Version 1.68EV]76 bgMagicBonus.esp [Version 1.7EV]77 bgMagicEVPaperChase.esp [Version 1.68EV]78 SupremeMagicka.esp [Version 0.89]79 SM_ShiveringIsles.esp [Version 0.86]++ SM_DLCSpellTome.esp [Version 0.80]++ SM_OOO.esp [Version 0.89]++ SM_COBL.esp [Version 0.86]7A SM_EnchantStaff.esp [Version 0.80]++ SM_Scrolls.esp [Version 0.84]++ SM_SigilStone.esp [Version 0.83]++ bgMagicEV_Conjuration_for_Supreme_Magicka.esp [Version 1.5]7B MidasSpells.esp7C nGCD.esp7D nGCD Oghma Infinium.esp7E Mayu's Animation Overhaul.esp++ Item interchange - Placement.esp [Version 0.74]7F CuteElf11.esp [Version 1.3.5]80 Ren_Soya_KD's.esp81 _Ren_BeautyPack_full + Soya's hair.esp82 CM Partners.esp83 CM Partners Special NPCs.esp84 CM Partners NPC.esp85 CM Partners More NPCs.esp86 CM Partners Marker NPCs.esp87 CM Partners Extra NPCs.esp88 1em_Vilja.esp89 Companion Neeshka.esp8A Sonia.esp8B Better Cities Full.esp8C BCBravilFULL-Barrowfields patch.esp8D BCChorrol-ChorrolHinterland fix.esp8E BCCheydinhalFULL-CheydinhalFalls patch.esp8F BCSkingrad-SkingradOutskirts patch.esp90 Better Cities - Thievery.esp91 Better Cities - VWD of the IC.esp92 Better Imperial City.esp93 Better Imperial City FPS Patch.esp94 Better Cities - COBL.esp [Version 2]95 Better Cities Full FPS Patch.esp++ Cobl Filter Late MERGE ONLY.esp [Version 1.53]96 Cobl Silent Equip Misc.esp [Version 01]** All Natural - Indoor Weather Filter For Mods.esp [Version 0.9.9.5]97 Enchantment Splitter.esp98 Quest Log Manager.esp [Version 1.2]99 BladeSong.esp9A CloudrulertempleVWD_v1.1.esp9B CuteElf11 Blue Portal Bug-Fix Patch.esp++ Enhanced Economy - Soulgems.esp [Version 4.2.1]9C CastleEltz.esp9D Bashed Patch, 0.esp9E 77_Umpa_sixy_walk.esp9F DMC Stylish - Specialanims.espA0 Streamline 3.1.esp