This is the description of a fight I just had in Oblivion, I′ve always been fond of utilizing the tools given to me so I frequently take advantage of power attack perks, especially when I play my female argonian monk, who needs the edge if she is going to fight with hand to hand. But it is far too easy for both NPC′s AND the player to loot stuff in combat, I disarmed that bandit and even with me pounding at his back he didn′t flinch while getting his dagger back, and likewise when I disarmed him again I did not have any trouble looting the dagger from the ground myself.
Now in Skyrim I hear we will get pushed around a bit, if something hits you hard you go flying. But if the same system of looting is kept from Oblivion where you just have to be a bit close and have your cross-hair over an item to loot it, then we will have the same problem with disarms in Skyrim. What I personally propose to fix this problem is for looting items to be a timed event only in combat (making it easy to see so people won′t rage before noticing this), so that if you intend to take something off the ground with something or someone beating you up you will need let′s say 3 seconds uninterrupted and if you get hit or pushed around those 3 seconds then you would fail, this would also allow the player to keep NPC′s from getting their weapon back so easily if they also needed 3 uninterrupted seconds for looting. It would still be possible to loot your weapon back through many means, for example you could use a paralysis spell that lasts 3+ seconds, you could use that force push dragon shout and then get your weapon, we could have an exception where if you cast telekinesis on the item you get it instantly (imagine the classic scene of the wizard making his (or someone else′s) weapon fly to his hand quickly (like what Saruman did with Gandalfs staff in LOTR)), you could lead your enemy away from the item and cast a quick encumbrance spell that would root him for enough time to get your weapon back, you could do the same but just slow your enemy with a frost spell, the possibilities are limitless.
But I am only one man and two minds are better than one, so what I ask is how would you like this matter to be addressed for Skyrim ?
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