Here are the mods I ultimately want to install (sorry for any incorrect names):
Unofficial Patch:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=1417
Stutter Remover:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=23208
Streamlining:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=10400
Better Facial Textures:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=5643
Animated Window Lighting:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=19628
All Natural:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=18305
Better Vegetation:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=23783
Sun Glare:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=3525
Better Water:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=12763
Colorful Map:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=3002
Francesco's leveling, etc...:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=268
Guard Overhaul:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=5977
Qarl's Texture pack - Redimized:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?id=3813&view=OblivionMods.Detail
Dark UI Load Screens:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=4440
Dark UI:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=11280
Guild Map Markers:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=12675
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NOW (thanks for getting this far). Here are the mods I tried installing before I realized I'm in over my head (you will notice that the first 7 are ones from the list above):
Unofficial Patch:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=1417
Dark UI Load Screens:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=4440
Dark UI:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=11280
Colorful Map:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=3002
Sun Glare:
http://planetelderscrolls.gamespy.com/View.php?view=OblivionMods.Detail&id=3525
Guild Map Markers:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=12675
Guard Overhaul:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=5977
Enhanced Weather / Skyboxes: ------
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=16544
Streamlined Scripts:
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=13092
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OKAY. So, at least some of the ones I tried installing are working (such as Dark UI), but some I haven't had a chance to tell yet.
Please tell me how to get the mods in the first list into my game. Should I just delete what I have and start again? Help!
Thanks for reading this huge post.