When grabbing something in Oblivion it kind of made it fly hope we see the hands actually grabbing it now and also when a NPC follow us because we are in his home can he just not stare at us and do nothing that would be a nice fix lol.

Not sure about the hands thing, But I'm sure when we break into someones home they will ether attack us or get the guards. At least that's what I hope for.

wow, you actually used punctuation at the end of the sentence.

the hand grabbing something would be interesting but i dont think we are at that lvl where it would be like holding it in your hand in real life... think about it. if you want to look at something from different angels you have to turn and pivot your hand and minipulate your fingers to get the effect you want. i would rather stay with something like oblivons but with better control.

also if some guy just walked into my house and started picking my stuff up i would probably stare at them too (actually i would grab the nearest thing handy, hopefully one of my katana's that ive collected and comince cussing them out and telling them if they dont gtf out they'd taste my blade so i think the people of skyrim starring is a lil better)

I doubt it. It would require a different animation depending on the object, as far as I know.

I wouldn't mind seeing something similar to what was done in Dark Messiah.