Honestly, I'd be content with video game "realistic" gore, and by this, I mean to say, it doesn't have to be 100% realistic, it just needs to be believable. Fallout 3 level of gore isn't believable because it's too over the top, and Oblivion's isn't believable because it's too clean, sure, there's blood, but people who get hacked to death with large axes look like they might as well have died of poison. I want to feel like I'm actually hitting people with a sword, and not just having it pass through them and apparently hurt them despite causing no visible damage to their bodies. Guess I hit them in the soul or something. But I say it doesn't need to be completely realistic because let's face it, this is supposed to be a video game, not a melee combat simulator, it needs to be entertaining, and making the violence TOO realistic might actually become detrimental to that because it could just end up being disturbing. I want violence that won't strain suspension of disbelief too much, at least for someone who hasn't had much experience with real life violence, but it doesn't need to be completely accurate down to the smallest drop of blood. I want it to actually feel like weapons are impacting characters, not like they're just passing through them harmlessly, which it could often feel like in Oblivion. I wouldn't mind the occassional dismemberment, though it should be a rare occurrance, perhaps only seen with some finishing moves, not like in Fallout 3 where a few shots from a pistol can rip someone's arm off.
am not a fan of gore. I would prefer levels of gore below New Vegas, personally. I'm not even sure why they add so much in, sometimes. It never adds anything substantial to the games.
On that I can't agree. Watch a video of someone getting killed in a game in which there is absolutely no blood or gore at all, and watch one that has a believable level of gore, and they're not going to feel the same at all, and feel is really what it comes down to. Violence shouldn't be clean and pretty, especially when you want to show the brutality of you're setting, yet when I see someone getting killed without any blood "clean and pretty" is exactly the feeling I get, and I speak from personal experience here, because in the games I've played, I've seen both incredibly over the top violence, "family friendly" violence and a lot of things in between, and depending on how much violence you show, the feeling I get from it can be very different.