Here is the load order, maybe someone knows what it is or what I am missing.
Oblivion.esm
ScreenEffects.esm
All Natural Base.esm
Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm
Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm
Francesco's Optional New Creatures Add-On.esm
Mart's Monster Mod.esm
Armamentarium.esm
CM Partners.esm
HorseCombatMaster.esm
Oblivion Vwalk.esp
DLCShiveringIsles.esp
DLCShiveringIsles Vwalk.esp
All Natural - Real Lights.esp
All Natural.esp
All Natural - SI.esp
Enhanced Water v2.0 HD.esp
WindowLightingSystem.esp
Book Jackets Oblivion.esp
ChaseCameraMod.esp
CM_Better Wine.esp
Cyrodilic Brandy.esp
Display Stats.esp
personality_idles2.esp
VA_BetterGold.esp
StandingJOJO.esp
Map Marker Overhaul.esp
Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions.esp
Expanded Hotkeys and Spell Delete V2.esp
DLCHorseArmor.esp
DLCOrrery.esp
DLCVileLair.esp
DLCMehrunesRazor.esp
DLCSpellTomes.esp
MaleBodyReplacerV4.esp
EVE_StockEquipmentReplacer.esp
Acolyte_Of_Kynareth_HGEC.esp
Alluring Potion Bottles.esp
AyleidMeteorIronWeaponsBASE.esp
alllll61s-blueness lion armor.esp
ArmamentariumVendors.esp
CapesandCloaks.esp
Captain_Molly_HGEC.esp
ChainHoods.esp
EY_AoD.esp
Eyren_AyleidWarrior.esp
FineWeapons.esp
GemSword.esp
Growlfs Animated Hair.esp
Ice Gowns for HGEC.esp
Lockbreaker.esp
Mage Leather Armor.esp
Mithris_HGEC.esp
MHSNfuru.esp
Retma Dresses.esp
RustyItems.esp
SaiyanRanger.esp
tkRapiers.esp
Wyrmfang.esp
RealSwords - Breton LO-NPC.esp
RealSwords - Nord LO-NPC.esp
Blackmarsh_Witch_HGEC_Clothing.esp
Gizmodian - Eclipse.esp
Armamentium female.esp
Morrowind Robes and Dresses for HGEC.esp
R18PN - Bs Bondage.esp
Gloria Armor.esp
Argent Iron Armor.esp
Slof's Horses Base.esp
DLCThievesDen.esp
Francesco's Optional Files.esp
Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
Mart's Monster Mod for Fran.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Additional Enemy NPC Vars.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Fran's leveled quests.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Less Bone Loot.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Extra Wounding.esp
Fransfemale.esp
Clamshell_Cottage_v1.5.esp
Abriael_Human.esp
eyja.esp
Fall Hair Wig Shop - EV.esp
Mondstein - female Companion.esp
Apachii_Heroes_Store.esp
DLCBattlehornCastle.esp
DLCFrostcrag.esp
Knights.esp
EVE_KnightsoftheNine.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Knights.esp
Lost Paladins of the Divines.esp
Shadowcrest_Vineyard.esp
xuldarkforest.esp
xulStendarrValley.esp
xulTheHeath.esp
XulEntiusGorge.esp
xulFallenleafEverglade.esp
xulColovianHighlands_EV.esp
xulChorrolHinterland.esp
xulBeachesOfCyrodiilLostCoast.esp
xulLushWoodlands.esp
xulAncientYews.esp
xulAncientRedwoods.esp
xulCloudtopMountains.esp
xulArriusCreek.esp
xulPatch_AY_AC.esp
xulRollingHills_EV.esp
xulRiverEthe.esp
xulImperialIsle.esp
EVE_ShiveringIslesEasterEggs.esp
bondage_six.esp
Eroblivion.esp
ScriptIcon_Replacer.esp
SkycaptainsBloodTime.esp
Alternative Start by Robert Evrae.esp
RealisticForceMedium.esp
BasicInstinct.esp
SupremeMagicka.esp
SM_ShiveringIsles.esp
SM_DLCSpellTome.esp
SM_EnchantStaff.esp
SM_Scrolls.esp
SM_SigilStone.esp
FearsomeMagicka.esp
RshAlchemy.esp
EnchantmentRestore.esp
Deadly Reflex 5 - Timed Block with no damage or durability changes.esp
DeadlyReflex 5 - Combat Moves.esp
SM_DeadlyReflex.esp
Oblivion XP.esp
Francesco's Slower skills x1.5.esp
CTAddPose_v_1.esp
CTAddPose_ bondage_six.esp
actors_in_charge.esp
77_Umpa_Animation.esp
EFGAddPose.esp
shinyEmotions.esp
Slof's sixy Anims.esp
EVE_KhajiitFix.esp
Soya 4 Hair Pack - English.esp
X.Races.Comp.esp
CM Partners.esp
CM Partners NPC.esp
CM Partners Extra NPCs.esp
A CM Partner - Caitlynn (Sonnet Remix).esp
1em_Vilja.esp
Companion_Ab_Human.esp
Companion_Ab_Human_2.esp
Companion_Ab_Human_4.esp
KT_CustomRaceFix.esp
Francesco's 10 days respawn time - 1-20 day lenght rescale.esp
_No__persistant_enchantment_glow_fix-1843.esp
Real Lava 1.3.esp
ScreenControls.esp
Hemingweys Capes.esp
Open Cities Classic Road Record.esp
ANB Witcherhunter Hat.esp
Kurese Recolours.esp
Ryk_Swimwear.esp
Dollparts_RoseCorsets - Dark & Light.esp
CB Knight Armor.esp
phinix_dual-wield_imports.esp
1SB_RavenousEleganceOutfit.esp
tdaArmorysixy.esp
TDDM.esp
EY_Spellsword.esp
Vaernlor Manor.esp
MountainShackR121.esp
Westwind_Rogue_HGEC.esp