So today I lost one of my friends and I feel bad. So anyways, he's a cool guy, entertains me on the bus ride home, cool Minecraft player. So yeah, he's great, I don't want to lose a friend, I don't have that many friends and so yeah... Advice?

Well what exactly happened?

Is he dead or what... How about some information.

Define 'lost'? I'm sorry to be so horribly insensitive, but I'm reading 3 potential meanings here, that he died, that you guys had a falling out, or that you actually physically lost him somewhere.

Did you do something to him?

Well, I'm assuming you mean lost as in you guys are going through a tough time. You're definitely going to give us more info.

What happened? What was the situation? Did you have a fight? Did you simply stop talking?

Yeah, fight. It's complicated, the word [censored] popped up though.

I hate it when the word [censored] pops up.

Makes one feel like your living in North Korea, only run by Mary Whitehouse.

Whenever I get in "fights" with my friends, it usually is just forgotten the next day. I thought that was like guy code?

I have all my friends implanted with microchips so if they get lost or stolen I can quickly recover them

I have gotten into fights with even my best of friends. Let it go for a while to cool off then have a talk with him and make up.



i know right?

Simple, admit you both were jerks, and then get drinks :foodndrink:



unless it's about a woman :shakehead:

Right? God, just hits you in the face sometimes.

Man, I was all set to offer condolences and everything.

Now I don't have anything prepared. Give it a while, like suggested. It'll be cool again.

Smite him.

you both have something in common right? minecraft? I assume you play together on a server. well you might be able to patch things up just by being at the same places for a period of time if your doing the same stuff.

I know what you mean though, I kind of lost a friend for a year because I made him mad and he flipped out in front of every one in school and was crying and stuff, what I actually did was not that bad but it was his embarassment and me being the cause that kept him from talking to me. in that one year period I asked him about something once and he ground his teeth and told me to stay away. nothing that I actually did worked out the problem, it just healed after about a year. some times thats how it works.

Apologize.

Same thing with me, didn't do anything wrong. Now, I don't mind if he accuses me of doing something really terrible (I did not hit her, I DID NOT! Oh, hi Mark.) just want to stop fighting. Now when I try to explain that to him...well actually since he won't talk to me I really can't explain that to him so that's the problem. Bottom line: No more fights.

We still don't know exactly what you did...

Need more details.

well not sure but it sounds as if this is a dispute about something that happened with a third person, if you can patch/resolve what happened with the the third person in stead of your friend that might work, other wise, if your friend does not want to talk there is no way to force them to listen and patch things up at the same time.

and never, never, never bring up blame, if it does come up just accept it if its toward you even if its not your fault, which is more important, the friend or pride? usually its the friend.

either you guys admit to your respecitve wrongdoings, or you dont.
frineds come and go in life. if its a friendship thats worth saving, try and see it from their point of view and then try apologize and make it right.

thats what ann flanders would say

I can't help because the lack of details. I love helping people.

Give him ice cream. :icecream: