^This.... Is true
But it's not so much about being F'ing a$$holes as much as "positive reinforcement" :celebration:
Technically, what you are doing is a negative reinforcement. Though you are trying to reinforce with 'constructive' critique. It is coming across in a negative tone,
Said tone, will most likely take 'away' happiness (for example) thus becoming a negative reinforcement.
(Difference between positive and negative reinforcement: one gives, one takes. Both are successful if used correctly)
But, no need to fear. you not going to make him end his life or anything. Actually you can master a negative reinforcement to do the exact same thing as a positive one.
Within context.
(I just used a positive reinforcement than)