To cut a long story short, while I certainly was able to install one of the overhaul mods with a few tiny ones and added graphical improvements it is unfortunately impossible for me to install more complex combinations. My dream Oblivion would be something along the lines of FCOM, Deadly Reflex, Cobl, BBC, UL, Qarls etc., nGCD, Midas, the better quest mods (i.e. Heart of Darkness) but after multiple tries I can only report failure.
Whatever I do I always seem to mess something up. I read up on the guides and readmes and carefully retraced my steps after each failure. While I am certainly not an idiot I finally do have to admit that I propably will not be able to sort this out on my own.
After grudgingly accepting this I did ask myself whether it would be possible to receive the data folder of someone who already succeeded in installing a complex combination of the most common mods. Would it be possible to simply copy someone else modded files (minus the Oblivon core files and DLC obviously) into my own Oblivion folder and be able to play his/her installed mods this way? If this is possible would someone care to do so and publish a torrent with it?
Maybe one day I will play a heavily modded Oblivion then .