Anyway, about issue of VATS... Good, bad or ugly.
As it is, I think VATS is perfect for me. I understand that some people do not like to use it at all or want to change some parts, only thing I can hope for from developers is that they make it moddable.
Because let's be honest, there is no bloody way I want to play MY game with YOUR rules ladies (I presume we have some?) and gentlemen.
Games are for me entertainment. If it is fun to me, I do it. And I admit that my immature side giggles when I rush into room filled with nasties, drop in VATS and "wake up" to massive mayhem around me.
My immature side also giggles when I do the same with minigun or gatling and let it rip in realtime (those pitiful burts in VATS never do proper justice).
Ok, in latter case I "damage" surroundings more than enemies but if it is fun... Who gives a crap?
Is VATS "I Win"-button? Perhaps, but I have fulltime job, family and so forth. Those take huge chunk of my time, I haven't been the same fast wired reflex monster I used to be. Nor do I have time to rinse and repeat same thing 20 times over until I finally manage to do it. (Both are things I have done in the past and enjoyed immensly... But time flies by.)
Gaming is for me chance to break from my regular life to enjoy something completely different from my daily life. I do not play to achieve or grow my epeen by declaring how HC I am doing something with one hand and blindfolded.
I like challenge, but even more I like ability to regulate the challenge to fit my current mood and needs. Thus, VATS as it is.
I have become, shock and horror, casual gamer. And guess what... I am willing to bet most people who will buy this game will be just like me. So balancing the game to fit us is important. But fortunately Bethesda is smart and modding grants you "serious" players chance to rebalance the game to fit your needs. Use that ability, do not demand me waste my limited amount of spare time to adjust to your (most likely minority) needs.