I got mine when I actually
joined the Society during the Beyond the Beef quest. Other than that, only thing I can think of is killing one of the workers. Try pickpocketing a grenade onto them so you don't take a faction hit. Amazingly the dress will still be wearable.
If all else fails, use console command
player.additem 001258c2 1 100 and say you found it in a closet.