Load Order:
Oblivion.esm
Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm
Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm
Mart's Monster Mod.esm
FCOM_Convergence.esm
Kvatch Rebuilt.esm
Better Cities Resources.esm
HorseCombatMaster.esm
DLCShiveringIsles.esp
Better Cities .esp
Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp
Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp
FCOM_Francescos.esp
Natural_Weather_HDR_by_Max_Tael.esp
Natural_Habitat_by_Max_Tael.esp
Natural_Water_by_Max_Tael.esp
Bob's Armory Oblivion.esp
FCOM_BobsArmory.esp
Oblivion WarCry EV.esp
FCOM_WarCry.esp
Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp
FCOM_Convergence.esp
FCOM_RealSwords.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - No Spiders.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp
Kvatch Rebuilt.esp
Kvatch Rebuilt - OOO Compatibility.esp
Kvatch Rebuilt - Leveled Guards - FCOM.esp
Knights.esp
Mart's Monster Mod - Knights.esp
Natural_Vegetation_by_Max_Tael.esp
Lynges Unlimited Death Reload Time.esp
Alternative Start by Robert Evrae.esp
Deadly Reflex 6 - Timed Block with no damage or durability changes.esp
DRSplatter.esp
Francesco's Slower skills x1.5.esp
Better Cities Full.esp
Better Imperial City.esp
DeadlyReflex 6 - Combat Moves.esp
Bashed Patch, 0.esp
OBMM didn't come up with any major conflictions, and I used BOSS to switch all the order I didn't know for sure.
Specs:
Windows 7 64bit
3gb RAM
GeForce 9800gt
Dual core 2.8GHz