Here is my load order...
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Active Mod Files:00 Oblivion.esm01 All Natural Base.esm [Version 1.0]02 Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm [Version 4.5bSI]03 Francesco's Optional New Items Add-On.esm [Version 4.5bSI]04 MD_Saddle_Master.esm05 Cobl Main.esm [Version 1.72]06 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esm [Version 1.34]07 Mart's Monster Mod.esm [Version 3.7b3p3]08 TamrielTravellers.esm [Version 1.39c]09 FCOM_Convergence.esm [Version 0.9.9MB3]0A Better Cities Resources.esm [Version 4.8.4]0B HorseCombatMaster.esm0C Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.3.3]0D DLCShiveringIsles.esp0E Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.4.0]0F Better Cities .esp++ FCOM_Francescos.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_FrancescosItemsAddOn.esp [Version 0.9.9]10 FCOM_FrancescosNamedBosses.esp [Version 0.9.9]11 All Natural.esp [Version 1.1]12 All Natural - SI.esp [Version 1.0]++ Advanced_Water_Modification-2734.esp13 All Natural - Real Lights.esp [Version 1.1]++ better lights.esp++ Item interchange - Extraction.esp [Version 0.76]14 RAEVWD Cities.esp [Version 1.9]15 RAEVWD New Sheoth.esp [Version 1.6.1]16 RAEVWD Imperial City.esp [Version 1.9]17 Living Economy.esp18 Living Economy - Items.esp19 moDem's City Life.esp1A Crowded Cities 30.esp1B Crowded Roads 23.esp1C DropLitTorchOBSE.esp [Version 2.4]1D NameThatHorse.esp1E P1DlookHereYou.esp1F Streamline 3.1.esp20 Map Marker Overhaul.esp [Version 3.7.1]21 Map Marker Overhaul - SI additions.esp [Version 3.5]22 Expanded Hotkeys and Spell Delete V2.esp23 Rope Ladders v1.esp24 MD Saddlebags v3.0.esp25 Cobl Glue.esp [Version 1.72]26 Cobl Si.esp [Version 1.63]27 Oscuro's_Oblivion_Overhaul.esp [Version 1.34]++ OOO-Water_Weeds.esp [Version 1.32.Final]++ OOO-DLT_Remover.esp [Version 1.32.Final]** OMOBS.esp [Version 1.0]** OMOBS_SI.esp [Version 1.0]28 OOO 1.32-Cobl.esp [Version 1.72]29 Mart's Monster Mod - Additional Enemy NPC Vars.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]2A FCOM_Convergence.esp [Version 0.9.9Mb3]2B FCOM_RealSwords.esp [Version 0.9.9]2C FCOM_DurabilityAndDamage.esp [Version 0.9.9]2D Mart's Monster Mod - More Wilderness Life.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - More Passive Wildlife.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ FCOM_SaferRoads.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_LessRats.esp [Version 0.9.9]2E Mart's Monster Mod - Extra Wounding.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Looting NPCs & Creatures.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]2F Mart's Monster Mod - Safer Quest Locations.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]30 Mart's Monster Mod - Dungeons of MMM.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]31 Mart's Monster Mod - Hunting & Crafting.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]32 Mart's Monster Mod - Farm Animals.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]33 Mart's Monster Mod - Diverse WaterLife.esp [Version 3.7b3p3f]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Slof Horses Complete.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]++ TamrielTravellerAdvscript.esp [Version 1.39c]34 TamrielTravellers4OOO.esp [Version 1.39c]++ TamrielTravellersItemsnpc.esp [Version 1.39c]35 TamrielTravellersItemsCobl.esp [Version 1.39c]36 ShiveringIsleTravellers.esp [Version 1.39c]++ ShiveringIsleTravellersFriendlyFactions4MMM.esp [Version 1.39c]++ FCOM_TamrielTravelers.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_DiverseGuardUnity.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ FCOM_HungersUnitySI.esp [Version 0.9.9]** FCOM_FriendlierFactions.esp [Version 0.9.9]37 FCOM_MoreRandomSpawns.esp [Version 0.9.9]38 FCOM_MoreRandomItems.esp [Version 0.9.9]++ Mart's Monster Mod - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.7b3p3]39 OOO-WaterFish.esp [Version 1.34]++ MMM-Cobl.esp [Version 1.69]3A Enchanting and Spell Making Altars.esp3B Scribe Supplies.esp3C VaultsofCyrodiilBC.esp3D Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]3E Dungeon Actors Have Torches 1.6 DT.esp3F Exterior Actors Have Torches 1.3 DT.esp40 GP_Lockpicks.esp [Version 1.5]41 P1DkeyChain.esp [Version 5.00]42 PersuasionOverhaul.esp [Version 1.43]++ PersuasionOverhaul_OOO.esp [Version 1.2]++ PersuasionOverhaul_MMM.esp [Version 1.2]++ ScriptIcon_Replacer.esp43 Toggleable Quantity Prompt.esp [Version 3.2.0]44 RealisticForceMedium.esp45 RealisticMagicForceMedium.esp46 RealSleepExtended.esp [Version 2.5]47 Addendum - Vampires.esp48 SupremeMagicka.esp [Version 0.90]49 SM_ShiveringIsles.esp [Version 0.86]++ SM_OOO.esp [Version 0.89]++ SM_MMM.esp [Version 0.89]4A SM_EnchantStaff.esp [Version 0.80]++ SM_Scrolls.esp [Version 0.84]++ SM_SigilStone.esp [Version 0.83]4B MidasSpells.esp4C Enchantment Enhanced.esp4D EnchantmentRestore.esp++ EnchantmentRestore_Wells.esp4E SM Combat Hide.esp [Version 1.2]4F StealthOverhaul.esp50 Stealth Entrances v1.esp51 RenGuardOverhaul.esp52 Enhanced Grabbing.esp [Version 0.5]53 Deadly Reflex 6 - Timed block and 150% damage.esp54 Mounted_Spellcasting_Deadly_Reflex_Compatible.esp55 Duke Patricks - Near Miss Magic And Arrows Alert The Target.esp [Version 7.1]56 Duke Patricks - Actors Can Miss Now.esp57 Duke Patricks - Fresh Kills Now Alert The NPCs.esp [Version 4]++ Francesco's Slower skills x1.5.esp58 SP1stPLegs.esp++ Item interchange - Placement for FCOM.esp [Version 0.76]59 bgBalancingEVCore.esp [Version 10.0EV-L]5A Better Cities Full.esp [Version 4.8.4]5B Better Cities - VWD of the IC.esp [Version 4.7.0]5C Better Imperial City.esp [Version 4.8.4]5D Better Imperial City FPS Patch.esp [Version 4.8.1]5E Better Cities Full FPS Patch.esp [Version 4.8.4]5F Better Cities - No LEYAWIIN Flooding.esp [Version 4.7.0]60 Francesco's 7 days respawn time - 1-16 day lenght rescale.esp** FCOM_Archery.esp [Version 0.9.9]61 Argonians and Khajiit Lose Tails no More Script.esp++ Duke Patricks - BASIC Script Effect Silencer NIF REMOVED.esp++ Cobl Filter Late MERGE ONLY.esp [Version 1.53]62 Cobl Silent Equip Misc.esp [Version 01]** All Natural - Indoor Weather Filter For Mods.esp [Version 1.1]63 Expanded Hotkeys and Spell Delete manual.esp64 Horse_AI-2364.esp65 SkillsOver100.esp++ Better Torches.esp66 DeadlyReflex 6 - Combat Moves.esp67 Bashed Patch, 0.esp
EDIT: I remembered that DarnUI requires editing of the .ini file so I reinstalled that mod and now I can load games. However everything I insert Oblivion CD it keeps resetting my graphic settings etc. which I think is replacing my .ini file, thus requiring this to occur everytime. How can I stop that configuring option from popping up when the CD autoruns?