I am not, thank you, very much...
If you remember, Oblivion had loads of towns, kings, queens, shops, inns but no politics or complex trade system whatsoever. I think some of us have *cough* "grown up" since then and would like something a bit more complex, in other words.. politics, trade.
:shrug:
I've "grown up" from the mid 30s, to 40. And I still don't enjoy "kingdom management" games. One of the main reasons I've avoided the Mount & Blade games, haven't played any of the Civ games since the first, and don't care for the SimCity games.
Aside from that, it's a pretty major gameplay feature - not the kind of thing you'd just toss in as yet another option in a TES game. But hey, that's just my opinion.