There's no one you can really compare his height to, and remember there's people with different proportions even of the same race now.
Indeed, unlike in past games, not every Nord is the same size, presumably. In any case, I'm leaning towards Nord, but that's mostly because since the game is set in Skyrim, I automatically assume any caucasian-looking human is a Nord if I don't have any reason to believe it is some other race I'm seeing.
Well, her eyes look completely black and aren't Bosmer eyes like that?
SOME Bosmer faces had eyes like that in Morrowind, but some of them had normal eyes and as far as I know, their eyes were normal in every other game too, so we can't be sure if that feature will carry over into Skyrim or not. In any case, I'd say that the elf is too far away and the picture not clear enough to really tell what her eyes are like.