9 + 2 IS 11 but the max is 10, so it FUNCTIONS as 10.
If 9 + 2 (showing 10) then you use something that's -2, you'll get an 8. That's how it works. SPECIAL does not exceed 10. Skills do not exceed 100.
With that logic, if I am at 9 and I mount + 2 I have 10
If I mount something else that is -2 then I am at 8 ( as you say, 10-2=8)
If I take off my +2 item then I'll be at 8-2 = 6, when all I was before this was a 9 now wearing one -2 item (should be 7, but using your math I would be at 6)