Does anyone kniw if you can have a child in skyrim i know there will be children in the game but having a son then him growing up to be a companion would be a nice touch

I searched but could not find a topic that wasnt locked or about children in general and locked

NOPE.

Nope, only the first two elder scrolls game covered a time period long enough for that

While there will be children in the game, they won't be the player character's children.