I am also not an gamesas employee, like most of you, I am a long time gamesas games gamer.
Work in progress
1) No Unrestricted Open PVP, some of us are purely PVE in preference (indeed many of us) - Credit Neowolf
2) Able to play many races - Vault Dwellers, Mutants, Robots, Cyborgs, Ghouls, and etc. This also extends into PvP. Credit - most of the player votes. There are some who just want to be human. Personally and many will agree, this is too mundane for a game this large and exciting.
3) We should not play any race except humans at first, I want the game as early as possible, and then they can add stuff to it. Credit - Jupidor Note - Most of the PvP agrees that starting point should be humans in PvE.
4) Players can join one of the many original factions (including ones that were unavailable in previous games. Credit - Neowolf and many others
5) Solo and group PvE quests - AnderlornLOTRO
6) Solo (1), Group (4+), Small Raid (12+/-), and Large Raid bosses (24 +/-) - Jupidor (Large raid) and AnderlornLOTRO and perhaps more from the community(the rest).
7) Mixed PvE and PvP environments - No instances or separate servers, - PvE players can not directly interact with PvP players except through in game pawn shops. No money transfers. PvE player may be effected by PvP weapon discharging if the PvE stands around watching a PvP fight without leaving or taking cover. This will keep the PvEers from interrupting PvPers. A PvE mob will regenerate quickly and can only be killed once an hour from the last PvP kill. This will help keeping the two from grieving each other over and over again plus illegally trade with each other.
8) A vast array of weapons and armor - Credit - pretty much the whole community
Fallout will not be fallout without the return of the originals plus new stuff.
9) Vehicles - From a motorcycle to a tank - Credit - And customize them - AnderlornLOTRO
10) Aircraft - such as a helicopter - Credit - And customize them or pick armament. Also, allow portable SAMS to give the pilots something to worry about. - AnderlornLOTRO
11) Lots of skills (herding Brahmin, butchering, breeding, legacy FO skills, ???)