What ARE you going to be for the record? I mean, in a game where you are DRAGONBORN and the plot revolves around YOU being DRAGONBORN is kind of strange seeing as you are going to be told you are DRAGONBORN. It's like Geralt pretending he's not a Witcher.
I'm going to be a regular female bosmer like in Oblivion. I'm not going to use the dragonshouts, and i'm going to try and ignore the whole dragonborn thing. If it turns out to be a very basic platform for the main story to start, ignoring it shouldn't be a problem. If however it turns out that the whole main story is revolved around telling me who my character is, then i'll simply have to avoid the main questline and enjoy the game for it's side quests and mods. I'll be a little disappointed, but it won't matter much. I'll still get hundreds of hours of enjoyment from the game.
And you can't really compare it to TW2. TW2 is a story-based RPG with a set character. Elder Scrolls games should give the player total freedom over who their character is. That's exactly why I hate that i'm told i'm Dovahkiin.