...So what exactly do I do to get strong or geared in the beginning because everythings owning me, any quest recommendations?
I don't play with FCOM, but I play with OOO and MMM, which is very similar.
The main points about this is this:
- The deeper you go into dugeons the harder they get, in general.
- Also the further you go from a city the harder the enemies get, in general.
- And also the OOO reduces level scaling. So not every enemy is scaled to your level.
So the key is to not try to clear out every dungeon your stumble upon. Or at least not go very deep.
A good starting dungeon is the first level of Fatback Cave near the Imperial City. That has three levels. The first level is relatively easy. The second could be difficult until you get to a higher level. The third has "bosses" that are nearly impossible at very low levels.
The Alyied ruin near the Imperial City main bridge is a good starting dungeon. Also the nearby Ft Nikel and Ft Virtue.
I recommend staying away from Dznots cave. That has some very nasty enemies at lower levels.
With FCOM, sometimes it makes sense to bravely run away. And not go very deep into dungeons at first. One of the satisfying things about OOO is that if an area is too hard, once you level up a few times get better skilled and equiped, and the you can go back and wipe the floor with the enemies that seemed horrible at lower levels. That gives you sense of accomplishment that you don't get in the unmodded game.