I don't mind the map marker, due to the fact that I have to go into the menu to view it, so therefore it's optional.......... now that #$%^*&! red compass marker is what I want to do away with altogether
Not sure what you mean by "check-list" journal. Or how that's different then prior TES journals.
Q.2
I wouldn't mind a real journal, but in no way in hell would I want it to replace the journal system as we know it.
Q.3
I haven't played skyrim yet, but I'm 99.9% sure that it will have more hand holding then morrowind, and will be simplefied like oblivion if not a little worse.