I run a lot of mods, here's my load order if that provides any insight
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Active Mod Files:
00 Oblivion.esm
01 All Natural Base.esm [Version 1.3]
02 Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm [Version 4.5bSI]
03 Cobl Main.esm [Version 1.72]
04 TamrielTravellers.esm [Version 1.39c]
05 BetterMusicSystem.esm
** Cobl Races TNR.esp [Version 1.53]
** Cobl Races TNR SI.esp [Version 1.53]
06 BlackScreenToggleFix.esp
07 Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.2.0]
++ UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp [Version 1.0.0]
08 DLCShiveringIsles.esp
09 Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.4.0]
0A SM Plugin Refurbish - SI.esp [Version 1.30]
0B All Natural.esp [Version 1.3]
0C All Natural - SI.esp [Version 1.3]
++ Symphony of Violence.esp
0D AmbientTownSounds.esp
0E Distant Chapel Bells.esp
0F Storms & Sound.esp
10 All Natural - Real Lights.esp [Version 1.3]
11 300_Lore_Dialogue_Updated.esp
12 Book Jackets Oblivion.esp
++ Cobl Bookjackets.esp
13 FOV Modifier.esp
++ Cyrodilic Brandy.esp
14 Days&Months.esp
15 Inebriation.esp
16 More Effective Enchantments.esp
17 More Effective Enchantments SI.esp
18 BetterMusicSystem(SI).esp [Version 1.0]
19 P1DseeYouSleep.esp
1A Camping.esp
1B Portable Campsite - Quickstart.esp
1C Enhanced Economy.esp [Version 5.3]
1D PTRoamingNPCs.esp
1E DropLitTorchOBSE.esp [Version 2.4]
1F kuerteeAutoSaveAndTime.esp
20 kuerteeSittableRocks.esp
21 sycNiceToMeetYou.esp
22 DLCHorseArmor.esp
23 DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
24 SM Plugin Refurbish - HorseArmor.esp [Version 1.11]
25 DLCOrrery.esp
26 DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.3]
27 SM Plugin Refurbish - Orrery.esp [Version 1.11]
28 DLCVileLair.esp
29 DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
++ SM Plugin Refurbish - VileLair.esp [Version 1.21]
2A P1DseeYouSleep - DLCVileLair.esp
2B DLCMehrunesRazor.esp
2C DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]
2D SM Plugin Refurbish - MehrunesRazor.esp [Version 1.30]
2E DLCSpellTomes.esp
++ DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.1]
++ CM_Better Wine.esp
2F XSPipeMod.esp [Version 1.2]
30 Rope Ladders v1.esp
31 Horse Management.esp [Version 1.23]
++ LadyDeadlock_LoveYourHorse.esp
32 Weapon Expansion Pack for Oblivion Nthusiasts.esp [Version 1.03]
33 DLCThievesDen.esp
34 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
35 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch - SSSB.esp [Version 1.0.4]
36 SM Plugin Refurbish - ThievesDen.esp [Version 1.30]
37 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp
38 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp
39 Francesco's Optional Dungeon Chest Loot.esp
3A Francesco's Optional Dungeon Chest Locks.esp
3B Francesco's Optional Leveled Guards.esp
3C Francesco's Optional House Chest Loot.esp
3D Francesco's Optional New Adventurers.esp
++ Francesco's Optional Vendor Tweaks.esp
3E Francesco's Optional Chance of More Enemies.esp
3F Francesco's Optional Leveled Arena.esp
40 Cobl Glue.esp [Version 1.72]
41 Cobl Si.esp [Version 1.63]
++ Cobl Tweaks.esp [Version 1.44]
42 FarmAnimalsofCyrodiil.esp [Version 1.4]
43 Creatures Alive v1.3.esp
44 TamrielTravellers.esp [Version 1.39c]
++ TamrielTravellersItemsnpc.esp [Version 1.39c]
45 TamrielTravellersItemsCobl.esp [Version 1.39c]
46 ShiveringIsleTravellers.esp [Version 1.39c]
++ ShiveringIsleTravellersFriendlyFactions.esp [Version 1.39c]
47 Oblivifall - Something's Not Right.esp [Version 1.0]
48 TamrielTransportationNetwork.esp
49 ShiveringIslesTransportationNetwork.esp
4A Cliff_PersonalGuildStorageChest.esp [Version 1.0]
4B Tavern-Goers 2.esp
4C Travelers Inns.esp
4D DLCFrostcrag.esp
4E DLCFrostcrag - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]
4F SM Plugin Refurbish - FrostCrag.esp [Version 1.2]
50 Knights.esp
51 Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.9]
52 More Effective Enchantments Knights.esp
++ SM Plugin Refurbish - Knights.esp [Version 1.06]
53 Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCVileLair.esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCFrostcrag.esp [Version 3.0.0]
54 HUD Status Bars.esp [Version 4.2.1]
55 kuerteeInventoryIsABackpack.esp
56 Oblivifall - Ambiant Dungeon SFX.esp [Version 3.0]
57 Oblivifall - Closing Time.esp [Version 1.0]
58 Oblivifall - Let's Talk!.esp [Version 1.1]
59 Oblivifall - New Classes.esp [Version 1.2]
5A Quest Award Leveller.esp [Version 2.0.1]
++ Quest Award Leveller - Vile Lair.esp [Version 2.1.0]
++ Quest Award Leveller - Mehrunes Razor.esp [Version 2.1.0]
++ Quest Award Leveller - Knights of the Nine.esp [Version 2.1.0]
5B StartChoices.esp
5C RealisticFatigue.esp
5D kuerteeEatAndSleep.esp
++ RealisticForceMedium.esp
++ RealisticMagicForceLow.esp
5E Syc_AtHomeAlchemy.esp
5F Stealth Entrances v1.esp
60 SM Security.esp [Version 1.2]
61 Morrowind Lockpicking.esp
62 RenGuardOverhaul.esp
63 Duke Patricks - Combat Archery.esp [Version 5.5]
64 Duke Patricks - Melee Combat NO RECOIL.esp [Version 2.6.7]
65 Sneaking Detection Recalibrated.esp
66 immersive_caves_auto.esp
** Cava Obscura - Cyrodiil.esp
** Cava Obscura - SI.esp
** Cava Obscura - Filter Patch For Mods.esp
67 Cobl Races.esp [Version 1.52]
68 No More Annoying Messages.esp [Version 1.3]
++ Cobl Filter Late MERGE ONLY.esp [Version 1.53]
69 Cobl Silent Equip Misc.esp [Version 01]
** All Natural - Indoor Weather Filter For Mods.esp [Version 1.3]
6A Bashed Patch, 0.esp
00 Oblivion.esm
01 All Natural Base.esm [Version 1.3]
02 Francesco's Leveled Creatures-Items Mod.esm [Version 4.5bSI]
03 Cobl Main.esm [Version 1.72]
04 TamrielTravellers.esm [Version 1.39c]
05 BetterMusicSystem.esm
** Cobl Races TNR.esp [Version 1.53]
** Cobl Races TNR SI.esp [Version 1.53]
06 BlackScreenToggleFix.esp
07 Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp [Version 3.2.0]
++ UOP Vampire Aging & Face Fix.esp [Version 1.0.0]
08 DLCShiveringIsles.esp
09 Unofficial Shivering Isles Patch.esp [Version 1.4.0]
0A SM Plugin Refurbish - SI.esp [Version 1.30]
0B All Natural.esp [Version 1.3]
0C All Natural - SI.esp [Version 1.3]
++ Symphony of Violence.esp
0D AmbientTownSounds.esp
0E Distant Chapel Bells.esp
0F Storms & Sound.esp
10 All Natural - Real Lights.esp [Version 1.3]
11 300_Lore_Dialogue_Updated.esp
12 Book Jackets Oblivion.esp
++ Cobl Bookjackets.esp
13 FOV Modifier.esp
++ Cyrodilic Brandy.esp
14 Days&Months.esp
15 Inebriation.esp
16 More Effective Enchantments.esp
17 More Effective Enchantments SI.esp
18 BetterMusicSystem(SI).esp [Version 1.0]
19 P1DseeYouSleep.esp
1A Camping.esp
1B Portable Campsite - Quickstart.esp
1C Enhanced Economy.esp [Version 5.3]
1D PTRoamingNPCs.esp
1E DropLitTorchOBSE.esp [Version 2.4]
1F kuerteeAutoSaveAndTime.esp
20 kuerteeSittableRocks.esp
21 sycNiceToMeetYou.esp
22 DLCHorseArmor.esp
23 DLCHorseArmor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
24 SM Plugin Refurbish - HorseArmor.esp [Version 1.11]
25 DLCOrrery.esp
26 DLCOrrery - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.3]
27 SM Plugin Refurbish - Orrery.esp [Version 1.11]
28 DLCVileLair.esp
29 DLCVileLair - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
++ SM Plugin Refurbish - VileLair.esp [Version 1.21]
2A P1DseeYouSleep - DLCVileLair.esp
2B DLCMehrunesRazor.esp
2C DLCMehrunesRazor - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]
2D SM Plugin Refurbish - MehrunesRazor.esp [Version 1.30]
2E DLCSpellTomes.esp
++ DLCSpellTomes - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.1]
++ CM_Better Wine.esp
2F XSPipeMod.esp [Version 1.2]
30 Rope Ladders v1.esp
31 Horse Management.esp [Version 1.23]
++ LadyDeadlock_LoveYourHorse.esp
32 Weapon Expansion Pack for Oblivion Nthusiasts.esp [Version 1.03]
33 DLCThievesDen.esp
34 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.5]
35 DLCThievesDen - Unofficial Patch - SSSB.esp [Version 1.0.4]
36 SM Plugin Refurbish - ThievesDen.esp [Version 1.30]
37 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Bosses.esp
38 Francesco's Optional Chance of Stronger Enemies.esp
39 Francesco's Optional Dungeon Chest Loot.esp
3A Francesco's Optional Dungeon Chest Locks.esp
3B Francesco's Optional Leveled Guards.esp
3C Francesco's Optional House Chest Loot.esp
3D Francesco's Optional New Adventurers.esp
++ Francesco's Optional Vendor Tweaks.esp
3E Francesco's Optional Chance of More Enemies.esp
3F Francesco's Optional Leveled Arena.esp
40 Cobl Glue.esp [Version 1.72]
41 Cobl Si.esp [Version 1.63]
++ Cobl Tweaks.esp [Version 1.44]
42 FarmAnimalsofCyrodiil.esp [Version 1.4]
43 Creatures Alive v1.3.esp
44 TamrielTravellers.esp [Version 1.39c]
++ TamrielTravellersItemsnpc.esp [Version 1.39c]
45 TamrielTravellersItemsCobl.esp [Version 1.39c]
46 ShiveringIsleTravellers.esp [Version 1.39c]
++ ShiveringIsleTravellersFriendlyFactions.esp [Version 1.39c]
47 Oblivifall - Something's Not Right.esp [Version 1.0]
48 TamrielTransportationNetwork.esp
49 ShiveringIslesTransportationNetwork.esp
4A Cliff_PersonalGuildStorageChest.esp [Version 1.0]
4B Tavern-Goers 2.esp
4C Travelers Inns.esp
4D DLCFrostcrag.esp
4E DLCFrostcrag - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.4]
4F SM Plugin Refurbish - FrostCrag.esp [Version 1.2]
50 Knights.esp
51 Knights - Unofficial Patch.esp [Version 1.0.9]
52 More Effective Enchantments Knights.esp
++ SM Plugin Refurbish - Knights.esp [Version 1.06]
53 Harvest [Flora].esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ Harvest [Flora] - Shivering Isles.esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCVileLair.esp [Version 3.0.0]
++ Harvest [Flora] - DLCFrostcrag.esp [Version 3.0.0]
54 HUD Status Bars.esp [Version 4.2.1]
55 kuerteeInventoryIsABackpack.esp
56 Oblivifall - Ambiant Dungeon SFX.esp [Version 3.0]
57 Oblivifall - Closing Time.esp [Version 1.0]
58 Oblivifall - Let's Talk!.esp [Version 1.1]
59 Oblivifall - New Classes.esp [Version 1.2]
5A Quest Award Leveller.esp [Version 2.0.1]
++ Quest Award Leveller - Vile Lair.esp [Version 2.1.0]
++ Quest Award Leveller - Mehrunes Razor.esp [Version 2.1.0]
++ Quest Award Leveller - Knights of the Nine.esp [Version 2.1.0]
5B StartChoices.esp
5C RealisticFatigue.esp
5D kuerteeEatAndSleep.esp
++ RealisticForceMedium.esp
++ RealisticMagicForceLow.esp
5E Syc_AtHomeAlchemy.esp
5F Stealth Entrances v1.esp
60 SM Security.esp [Version 1.2]
61 Morrowind Lockpicking.esp
62 RenGuardOverhaul.esp
63 Duke Patricks - Combat Archery.esp [Version 5.5]
64 Duke Patricks - Melee Combat NO RECOIL.esp [Version 2.6.7]
65 Sneaking Detection Recalibrated.esp
66 immersive_caves_auto.esp
** Cava Obscura - Cyrodiil.esp
** Cava Obscura - SI.esp
** Cava Obscura - Filter Patch For Mods.esp
67 Cobl Races.esp [Version 1.52]
68 No More Annoying Messages.esp [Version 1.3]
++ Cobl Filter Late MERGE ONLY.esp [Version 1.53]
69 Cobl Silent Equip Misc.esp [Version 01]
** All Natural - Indoor Weather Filter For Mods.esp [Version 1.3]
6A Bashed Patch, 0.esp