Can some put a link to a ow to mod fallout newvegas one thats good i dont no which one to watch theres so many plz help

Just a tip, friend...on a forum, it's best to type like you know some English. Then people are more liable to help you out.

http://www.newvegasnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=36901 search on the Nexus would have found this very quickly. Good luck.

Sorry i have fallout mod manager when i hit falloit newvegas in the selection box it say game can not be found do i have to use usb and modio because i have 360

A small tip: At least try to write in English. Even it is not your first language. Even Google Translate works in a pinch.
And if I understand you correct you have the Xbox 360 version of Fallout: New Vegas. In which case you can't use any mods at all. Or if you are trying to use the Xbox 360 controller with the PC version of Fallout: New Vegas then it works out of the box.

Discussion of adding unauthorised content to a 360 is not permitted on these forums.