1) I don't want my wife to be a brainless NPC. It'd be cool if maybe sometimes she had a fight with somebody (verbal) and I had to sort it out. Or maybe if an ex-boyfriend was jealous, I would have to kill him before he kills my wife.
2) six. I do not want to be able to have six. Maybe a simple kind of "What do you think of having a kid" question that your wife asks after a few months of marriage, and if you reply "Yes" the screen blacks out for a while, then fades back in. Nothing graphic. And in the whole six months, you'll have a kid and possibly a few quests that develop as your kid gets older (Such as: your kid is sick, we need X of these herbs to cure him/her.)
3)Your wife not being self-sufficient. I don't want to be constantly getting meat and fruit to feed her. She should have a job.
Something I'm curious about.
Marrying many times? Having more than one wife? Would it be illegal?
What are your thoughts?